Ill tell you all of the ladies that chimed in on your thread contributed to the woman I have become today, I've learned alot from them probably without them even knowing.
I came here LOST back in the end of 2004...
I changed my life by the things I have learned on this site... many lessons that's for sure. If you'd like to see just how far Ive come, please check out this
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Best wishes to you.