Q - For the EF women

[dumbell150]

Ladies - My Fiance and I want to try a threesome.First, let me start off by saying that she initiated this, so their is no pressure on my end for this to happen, I believe it should happen as naturally as possible. She has been with other women before infront of me and alone, but she would like me to join . We did discusse the possibility of one of hers friends, very hot japanese girl. But it never seems to come about, and im not sure if thats a good idea.My questions is what the best situation we can be in for this to happen? Bar, clubs? We both comfortable with the situation, but i want everything to be fun and stress free.Also, i would like some feedback on some do's and donts..

 

[new@gettinbig]

This post belongs in chat.

 

[smallmovesal]

good god was this on the women's board?

 

[satanic goatslayer]

In these situations, tact is always your best comrade.

Accept her plan, then after you finish up, lock them both in a linen closet and burn the house down.

 

[CrimsonKing]

 

[The Whole F/N Show]

I dunno, should someone have a nazi with a swastika armband in their anvatar?

 

[magdelana]

I dont like the swastika either. I am from Rotterdam and de Nazis bombed our city completely away in 1940 even though they did not have to.

About the menage a tois, it is important to find a girl that you are BOTH comfortable with and equally attracted to. Will you feel jelous, uneasy to see her cuming from another woman's mouth? Are you sure? Will she feel compleetly fine seeing see pumped this girls pussy? You both must be very comfortable with this idea and the girl. I have fucked maybe 20 or so women while there man watches and fucked them also (i am lesbian) and sometimes the guy is jelous a bit or things do not go so well. Sometimes the girl was uncomfortable with my body becasuse she thought it was better then hers and became jelous. Think about these things.

Make a bit of a relationship with the girl and talk about what you all want. Be very honest and open. If you or she is the jelous sort or not compleetly strong in your relationship then this is not a good idea.

 

[woollis2]

Word of advice....always have this in the back of your mind...will it ruin your relationship. Now I have done this...twice....once drunk...and once that....well it's a long drawn out story that I wouldn't like to get into it..... but anyway....if that is what you two want together....go for it. I may sound like a fuddy duddy, but make sure you are emotionally ready for it. Physically...hell yeah...but there is always a possibility.....and I said POSSIBILITY...of emotional situations afterwards. If your relationship is strong enough....then I say go for it my friend.

As far as how to initate it, be in a place that is most comfortable for both of you. I would suggest your home. Invite whomever over and then just let it play out. Maybe put on a movie or some seductive music. But you want to be in the most comfortable place. Don't expect it....just let it play out...whatever or however it happens will.

 

[dumbell150]

Mag - I definatly wouldnt mind watching her brought to climax by another women....Im extremely opened minded, almost to a fault...She's even discussed having a threesome, with another fella......I didnt say yes, and i didnt say no.....Our relationship is pretty strong, she knows in her heart im not going anywhere...We hav been together for nearly 10 problem free years.......And she's pretty damn hot too, ex Victoria Secrets model, maybe Playboy next year....So i guess, take it slow..Hmmm...Well, ill keep ya posted.

 

[magdelana]

It is very good that you have been a couple so long and feel secure in your relationship. This makes it much more possbile that your menage a tois will not hurt things and maybe even make your seks much more exciting again, like it was when you first started together. No matter how good the seks and how much love we all can be a bit in a rut after so long with one person.

Your wife sounds pretty. I am sure there would be a lot of women interested in being with her. I would! Just pick carefully the right girl. It helps very much if she is like your personalites and also is very attracted to both of you. Everyone needs to feel wanted and sexy when the fucking starts.