No sex....some advice please

[musclemom]

Gentlemen, lemme let you in on a little secret. The FASTEST sex drive killer on the planet:

She's PISSED at you.

Might be something REALLY small, but it's something she's brought up to you, probably time and time again, you won't do a damn thing about it, keep forgetting that she's mentioned it, maybe don't even hear her saying it to you.

And for all y'all that think women can't live without getting laid, gents, hate to break it to you, but women can self service, too

AND BY THE FREAKING WAY ... just because we don't WANT to fuck you doesn't mean we would RATHER be fucking someone else ... it COULD mean we just DON'T want to fuck you!!! We are not men. If we're not in the mood, it's not because we're satiated, it's because WE DON'T WANNA.

Oh, and here's a little secret about women -- if we're cheating on you, we have been known to suddenly START fucking you a lot to throw you off the trail

 

[Gymgurl]

Girls gotta get dick from somewhere man
I ignored that same phenomena with girls in the past. 100% of the time they were fucking some other guy.
be wary and watch your ass so you dont get burned

This is a good thing to listen to......if she really wanted it before and no longer wants it.....

BUT there are so many other things it can be

 

[SheDragon]

How could she not want sex??? Especially being in her 20's!! I agree, make sure its nothing medical cause that sure is weird!!

 

[SheDragon]

or she could be losing interest in you

 

[uniden44]

Thanks for all the advice. I've tried bringing it up before but she gets defensive and asks is that all I care about. I will give it another shot and ease into it.

I know everyone has heard this a million times but I know shes not cheating on me. I just want to try and figure this out before it goes on too long. I love her but for a long term (which I know she wants) I don't know if I can handle it.

I try no to resent her or get angry but sometimes its hard b/c I really just don't understand. I will let you all know how it goes. Thanks again!

 

[SheDragon]

Thanks for all the advice. I've tried bringing it up before but she gets defensive and asks is that all I care about. I will give it another shot and ease into it.

I know everyone has heard this a million times but I know shes not cheating on me. I just want to try and figure this out before it goes on too long. I love her but for a long term (which I know she wants) I don't know if I can handle it.

I try no to resent her or get angry but sometimes its hard b/c I really just don't understand. I will let you all know how it goes. Thanks again!

sometimes you dont want to believe that there's someone else but reality is, many times thats the reason behind this. i could always tell when my ex had something on the side. i could tell by his suddenly "losing interest" or just "having sex" as opposed to "making love".. and i didnt need proof, i just knew it.

 

[musclemom]

Thanks for all the advice. I've tried bringing it up before but she gets defensive and asks is that all I care about. I will give it another shot and ease into it.

I know everyone has heard this a million times but I know shes not cheating on me. I just want to try and figure this out before it goes on too long. I love her but for a long term (which I know she wants) I don't know if I can handle it.

I try no to resent her or get angry but sometimes its hard b/c I really just don't understand. I will let you all know how it goes. Thanks again!

Dude, she's pissed at you. If she didn't feel good, or was getting worried about it herself, she'd get weepy and say she couldn't figure out what it is, ask you to bear with her ... uh uh, she knows EXACTLY what it is.

You're leaving the toilet seat up, or forgetting to take out the garbage, or dumping the household chores on her, or drinking too much, or spending too much time watching television or haven't taken her out recently, or haven't complimented the way she looks or SOMETHING!!! She feels like you're taking her for granted, is what it comes down to.

Take her away this weekend, surprise her, plan it all out, wine and dine her, splurge a little. Couple of nice meals, nice hotel, nice flowers ... be prepared for her to vent her spleen, then have hot makeup sex. BUT ABSOLUTELY, UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES, BRING UP THE SUBJECT OF LACK OF SEX ... let bring it up.

You're in deep doo-doo, and if you don't fix it, it's just gonna get worse.

If it DOESN'T smooth things out, then broach the subject of couples counseling, see how she takes that.

But I'm telling you, if she was worried about her libido she would have said as much to you, there's something else going on with her.

 

[KillahBee]

Dude, she's pissed at you. If she didn't feel good, or was getting worried about it herself, she'd get weepy and say she couldn't figure out what it is, ask you to bear with her ... uh uh, she knows EXACTLY what it is.

You're leaving the toilet seat up, or forgetting to take out the garbage, or dumping the household chores on her, or drinking too much, or spending too much time watching television or haven't taken her out recently, or haven't complimented the way she looks or SOMETHING!!! She feels like you're taking her for granted, is what it comes down to.

Take her away this weekend, surprise her, plan it all out, wine and dine her, splurge a little. Couple of nice meals, nice hotel, nice flowers ... be prepared for her to vent her spleen, then have hot makeup sex.

If it DOESN'T smooth things out, then broach the subject of couples counseling, see how she takes that.

But I'm telling you, if she was worried about her libido she would have said as much to you, there's something else going on with her.

IN ABSOLUTELY NO WAY SHOULD YOU FOLLOW THIS ADVICE!!! For real, this is TERRIBLE advice. This type of approach is the root of all the issues we men have with American women - the spoiled little princess attitude.

What MM is saying is simply this - "your girl is upset for whatever reason - reward her for being upset and not communicating that in a mature, adult manner". It's ridiculous, nonsensical and quite amateurish as well.

 

[Wulfgar]

Propose. That should fix it.

Hey thats what I did!! She actually said yes...lol
i think she just wanted to wea the 30K$ ring for a few days...i heard later from a couple of the guys she was fucking that she would wear the ring and laugh her as off about how pathetic i was while she was jerking them off and sucking thier cocks with the hand her ring was on(ya, she was a lefty)

 

[Wulfgar]

Gentlemen, lemme let you in on a little secret. The FASTEST sex drive killer on the planet:

She's PISSED at you.

Might be something REALLY small, but it's something she's brought up to you, probably time and time again, you won't do a damn thing about it, keep forgetting that she's mentioned it, maybe don't even hear her saying it to you.

And for all y'all that think women can't live without getting laid, gents, hate to break it to you, but women can self service, too

AND BY THE FREAKING WAY ... just because we don't WANT to fuck you doesn't mean we would RATHER be fucking someone else ... it COULD mean we just DON'T want to fuck you!!! We are not men. If we're not in the mood, it's not because we're satiated, it's because WE DON'T WANNA.

Oh, and here's a little secret about women -- if we're cheating on you, we have been known to suddenly START fucking you a lot to throw you off the trail

god i want one of those! One who will at least give me some ass before she crushes me and lets me know she has been screwing all my homies...i been getting hosed