Darlin, I am VERY sensitive when it comes to the art of making love. I would never EVER EVER diss a man for lacking skill. I would very gently guide him as what does and does not feel good for me *specifically*. You see, that was not the issue with my ex at all. It was just that he was a selfish sonofabitch all the way around. So sorry, but my arguement DOES hold water.... at least w/a man like him.
You can't think that all men and women are/think the same.
The comparison is valid as
men like my ex wouldn't think to *lower* themselves to pleasure a woman. They are too busy consumed with their own.
So now.... are we in agreement.... or what?