What I meant was that I think people tend to see in others what they are themselves. Not just one or two people but when I hear someone say things like everyone is, or people tend to be, or everyone in my city was...blah blah
I think if someone runs into jealous losers "everywhere they go" then they're probably someone that gets jealous of other people's accomplishments and is assuming that others think the same way.
Well if some one is jealous and being rude and disrespecting mine, then I start bragging about ask of my accomplishments and future plans, as I'd I was rubbing their nose in it, so they shut up.
Well if some one is jealous and being rude and disrespecting mine, then I start bragging about ask of my accomplishments and future plans, as I'd I was rubbing their nose in it, so they shut up.
Lol except the problem is the *large* majority of the time, people you think are jealous, aren't jealous.
If someone gets annoyed by that, it's over someone acting like a douchebag, not jealousy.
It's sort of like this ex I had who was so upset I was with someone new, he thought telling me how great he was would make me jealous and go back to him. Hed consistently tell me how much money he had, what lavish gifts he gave etc. And when that didn't work, he made up a fake girlfriend and would assign her traits and stories that exactly matched my accomplishments or story. And I wasn't jealous the more he bragged (falsely) about her. The more he bragged (true or false), the happier and more thankful I was that what I have now is nothing like him.
Renee, I hope you write more about this. I would like more of an in depth glimpse into pathological envy. If you would like some male insight please feel free to post in chat and convo.