Is this myth(?) true?

[newpump]

Why do men say they took the woman's virginity? That sounds like you raped her instead of it being consesual. You don't take it. Learn that!

Sorry for the confusion Nvrbuffenuff! You are absolutely correct - a woman chooses who to give her gift to. I think the magnatude of that choice is what keeps a kind of link between the woman and her first male "choice" in a lot of cases, hence the initial comment on this thread.

 

[Gymgurl]

I think that maybe we are more emotionally attached to you but that is all

 

[Robert Jan]

fuck virginity

fucking GIFT deflowering bullshit

Im still together with my first and im her first too.

I think we'll always be booty call material together but i think thats more because of the nature of our relationship than the fact im her first.

she actually did mess around a bit before just never technically fucked.

 

[Longhorn85]

Why do men say they took the woman's virginity?

Because the woman is giving it up, and once it's gone, it's gone.