Is this myth(?) true?

[TruBalla4Real]

I was just wondering from those of you with experience.... If you take a woman's virginity are they way more attached to you then they ever will be to another guy (I mean besides their husband).... I'm talking more when the relationship is over.... My friends say that if they de-flower a girl they still get it from them whenever they want even if they are broken up... is this true?

 

[marshallmadman]

In a lot of situations, it is true. I have definitely reaped it's benefits. I dated a girl for 5 years, and took her virginity. We have been broke up for five years now, and she has always slept with me behind her other boyfriends/fiancee's backs...Ain't women the best.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

In a lot of situations, it is true. I have definitely reaped it's benefits. I dated a girl for 5 years, and took her virginity. We have been broke up for five years now, and she has always slept with me behind her other boyfriends/fiancee's backs...Ain't women the best.

That is so phenominally sad on so many levels...

 

[newpump]

True. Been there - done that .

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

Why do men say they took the woman's virginity? That sounds like you raped her instead of it being consesual. You don't take it. Learn that!

 

[annabelletx]

hell no not true in my case. i wouldn't go back to him if my depended on it. his dick was the size of a pencil and he didn't know what he was doing.

 

[marshallmadman]

Why do men say they took the woman's virginity? That sounds like you raped her instead of it being consesual. You don't take it. Learn that!

Didn't mean to rile you up NBEG. I was merely mirroring the adjective used by the originator of this thread. I guess that was just subconscious. I retract my statement. I didn't take her virginity. She wanted it. Learn that!

 

[TruBalla4Real]

I didn't mean that I "took" it literally, but the v-card is always TAKEN by the other person, even if the one giving it is the guy. The one that is the virgin is GIVING it.... Now lets assume that this guy has a big dick and knows how to use it annabelletx haha.

 

[PBR]

IMHO....thats very heavy gift..(virginity). I dont know that I would be worthy...I would seriously give that "thought" before accepting such an everlasting exchange.

 

[Werd]

I wasn't allowe to make the choice so I really cant comment.

I guess I can use my sis' example. She dated her first bf for about 5 years and yes she gave her virginity. When she dumped his ass for cheating several years later they were O-V-E-R.

 

[newpump]

Why do men say they took the woman's virginity? That sounds like you raped her instead of it being consesual. You don't take it. Learn that!

Sorry for the confusion Nvrbuffenuff! You are absolutely correct - a woman chooses who to give her gift to. I think the magnatude of that choice is what keeps a kind of link between the woman and her first male "choice" in a lot of cases, hence the initial comment on this thread.

 

[Gymgurl]

I think that maybe we are more emotionally attached to you but that is all

 

[Robert Jan]

fuck virginity

fucking GIFT deflowering bullshit

Im still together with my first and im her first too.

I think we'll always be booty call material together but i think thats more because of the nature of our relationship than the fact im her first.

she actually did mess around a bit before just never technically fucked.

 

[Longhorn85]

Why do men say they took the woman's virginity?

Because the woman is giving it up, and once it's gone, it's gone.