I'm tired of being such a pussy around chicks.

[from zero]

Christ. I'm 21. Never been able to just go up and talk to a girl. I mean I've done it in the past, but damn, when I did, it felt like I left my balls at home or something. Anyway, I broke up with my gf a couple months ago, and I don't feel like being single. Right, so, there is this cute chick I've seen a couple times at Best Buy (she's a cashier there), and have wanted to just talk to her and ask her out or something.

So, help me grow some goddamned nuts. What could I say to her?

 

[vinylgroover]

You just broke up with a chick and you wanna get into another relationship? What's wrong with having some fun......you're 21 for god's sake.

At 21 single is the way to be.......get out there and screw women.

 

[-SD-]

Dont ask her out too quick, youve got to crawl before you walk. When you go to Best buy go through her line and try to make flirtatious small talk, but dont make it seem like you are anything other than a customer buying something. After a few times of this then you can make a move for the phone number, IF she is digging you and stuff. There isnt any really suave way of getting her number, once you are done flirting with her for a moment and you are walking from the register simply say "I would like to talk to you some other time, can I get your number?"
Either she will or she wont, its not complicated. You probably have a fear of rejection which is stopping you from being bold and making moves on women. You have to get ou there and fuck up and get rejected a few times so you can realize that it isnt a big deal, then you can have more confidence when dealing with women.

 

[from zero]

You just broke up with a chick and you wanna get into another relationship? What's wrong with having some fun......you're 21 for god's sake.

At 21 single is the way to be.......get out there and screw women.

I totally understand ya ... but I'm not that guy. Call me a tool, but I'm just not that kind of person.

 

[Anarchist]

you guy must be ugly. if i walk around a mall for a half hour i get at least one and i dont even approach

 

[Sundance]

You just broke up with a chick and you wanna get into another relationship? What's wrong with having some fun......you're 21 for god's sake.

At 21 single is the way to be.......get out there and screw women.

When he will be 40 he will be crying for wasting his youth and not scoring..

 

[Tiervexx]

you guy must be ugly. if i walk around a mall for a half hour i get at least one and i dont even approach

Same with me. I am willing to bet that the average person at this board puts 10000 times the work in his/her appearance as the average Joe.

 

[Tiervexx]

From zero, try to convince yourself that you are not interested in the girl before you try to talk to her, as if you were gay or something. Trust me, the more you can do that the easer it will be for you to relax and talk naturally.

If you think about how hot she looks, and how much you will be disappointed if she says no you are guaranteed to get nervous and therefore make an ass of yourself.

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

it never gets easier boys

 

[lilperronis]

99% of girls are lying bitches, the other 1% dont tell the truth