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I gotta be honest...I agree with this...
I did actually temporarily put my two oldest with the ex for a school yr (same school system) because I couldn't afford what they needed...shit got straightened out and now they're back with me..i pay for every last expense for them now.
child support isn't the only answer.
I have shared custody and don't get child support.
If he really wanted custody, he probably could've had it by now if his finances are so great. almost sounds like he likes intimidating women. he lives with his mom. obviously can't even take care of himself, much less two kids
Courts don't place kids with whomever has the best financial cercumstances.
Have you been through devo and child issues?
Nah, i haven't. I'm making my judgment off of what V had posted now and in the past. Its just one side of the story but why else would she not have taken him to court if she wasn't intimidated by him? Am I the only one who thinks the fact that the dude lives with his mama is a red flag?
He hadn't taken her to court for custody but at the same time refuses to help financially? Shit doesn't add up
There are too many posts for me to answer individually. Here's the deal..
He is aggressive and can be abusive. It was mostly verbal but he did push me around a lot, strangled me a few times. I was with him since I was 16, the physical abuse didn't start until I had my second child. I stayed until he went after my oldest son, who was 12 at the time. He did not hit him, I got a baseball bat and pushed him out of the room. That's when I decided we were getting out.
It's been about a year and a half. I will not have that man raise my boys. He hasn't gotten aggressive with them at all since that one day. But he did attack his next door neighbors because they were "staring at him". He threatened th with a gun and the cops showed up with their guns drawn and put my now 14y/o on the ground cause he was standing outside. He fights, he lives with his parents and thinks he's entitled to being taken care of, he holds no value in education, he has a very poor work ethic, and he hangs out with known criminals. His brother, who also lives in the house is constantly in trouble with the cops. My boys come back home and dressing like thugs from his place. He raises them with an arrogance that will only hurt them as adults.
He agreed to pay me $600 a month but I haven't seen a dime. I'm going for full custody, I don't have a lawyer because I don't have the money. His response was to ask for full custody also. The custody hearing is in 3 weeks.
Uh I can't remember what else you guys asked. I hope that's everything.
He is aggressive and can be abusive. It was mostly verbal but he did push me around a lot, strangled me a few times. I was with him since I was 16, the physical abuse didn't start until I had my second child. I stayed until he went after my oldest son, who was 12 at the time. He did not hit him, I got a baseball bat and pushed him out of the room. That's when I decided we were getting out.
It's been about a year and a half. I will not have that man raise my boys. He hasn't gotten aggressive with them at all since that one day. But he did attack his next door neighbors because they were "staring at him". He threatened th with a gun and the cops showed up with their guns drawn and put my now 14y/o on the ground cause he was standing outside. He fights, he lives with his parents and thinks he's entitled to being taken care of, he holds no value in education, he has a very poor work ethic, and he hangs out with known criminals. His brother, who also lives in the house is constantly in trouble with the cops. My boys come back home and dressing like thugs from his place. He raises them with an arrogance that will only hurt them as adults.
He agreed to pay me $600 a month but I haven't seen a dime. I'm going for full custody, I don't have a lawyer because I don't have the money. His response was to ask for full custody also. The custody hearing is in 3 weeks.
Uh I can't remember what else you guys asked. I hope that's everything.
I have a few things to say here:
1) Spy Wizard, STFU you're stupid. You're clearly still disturbed based on your abusive childhood. Nobody cares.
2) This douche of an ex is just purposely doing what he can to make your life (and those around him) hell. It must have been an enormous shot to his ego that you walked out on him. Now he's living with his Mommy. I bet he's a very angry and messed up person. Sounds like a complete waste of skin.
3) I hope you get things straightened out through the courts. If you are sole custodian (hope you win) then YES he is responsible for paying child support (fuck off to those here who don't agree).
4) I've been through a crappy divorce/custody thing but my ex didnt have a pot to piss in, didnt have any legal representation, no job, no decent family to support him, no car, no license, no bank account, no house. I too left him and I believe he still holds it against me 12 yrs later, but not nearly as bad as he did the first 5 yrs or so.
1) Spy Wizard, STFU you're stupid. You're clearly still disturbed based on your abusive childhood. Nobody cares.
2) This douche of an ex is just purposely doing what he can to make your life (and those around him) hell. It must have been an enormous shot to his ego that you walked out on him. Now he's living with his Mommy. I bet he's a very angry and messed up person. Sounds like a complete waste of skin.
3) I hope you get things straightened out through the courts. If you are sole custodian (hope you win) then YES he is responsible for paying child support (fuck off to those here who don't agree).
4) I've been through a crappy divorce/custody thing but my ex didnt have a pot to piss in, didnt have any legal representation, no job, no decent family to support him, no car, no license, no bank account, no house. I too left him and I believe he still holds it against me 12 yrs later, but not nearly as bad as he did the first 5 yrs or so.
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