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I'm not getting enough sex in my current relationship...
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all the whey
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Forge said:But that’s just it, you ARE saying to play a game. You are saying that I can’t be honest with her, that I should pretend we are in a high school relationship and act like I don’t want it when I really do.
I’m not a good liar, I’m not one to say one thing but mean another. Are you saying it’s needy to tell her how much I want to have sex with her? I’ve never had problems being honest about sex with other women. Usually my gf’s are crazy horny from all the sex we have, usually they appreciate my upfront honesty. Maybe she has the problem, not me. If she can’t handle the truth and it turns her “off” because wanting regular sex makes me “needy”, then what the hell?
The relationship is early, this is the honeymoon phase, we should be fucking like rabbits in heat. She should be wanting to have sex more than once a week.. It may be easy for women to stop worrying about sex, but us men have drives, we have impulses, we have lusts. We do things for our women in hopes of ultimately getting action. Maybe it’s just hard for a woman to understand how much sex means to a man…
Women love what they can’t have? How about appreciating what you do have? How about leaving the games to the teenagers?
Note Blueta I’m not ranting on you personally, you seem like a very nice gal,it’s just that your post kind of irritated me. I hate when women resort to the game playing attitude, is it too much to ask for maturity and honesty in an adult relationship?
All most all guys will agree with you. It does not make sense. The more you do for and make yourself available should make them apreciate and love you more. But, that is not the way it is. (usually)
wow... the reply's from this just amaze me.
First off, kick your self in the ass for even asking anyone on a chat and convo forum to give you a serious response... dude, you should know better.
duh................
But on a serious note, wouldn't you want her qualities as a mother of your own child? OR would you prefer a person that puts off her child for the pleasure of SEX?
I also was one to want, desire, need it 2-3 times a day... My previous beau would provide, but with current circumstance Its kinda null and void for me, but that is ok. My focus is on my kids, my life, advancement in my career, etc...
Weird for my beau when I told him after a long term relaionship, sex 3 times a day sometimes... me, miss lil sex maniac... that I wasn't going to have sex with anyone until marriage... he actually thought I was seeing someone else. That is not the case, however I have my priorities in order and though sex is upmost pleasurable, its not a main focus in my life.
Don't ruin a bond between the both of you due to sex... DON'T
Respect her devotion to her child... what would you tell your daughter to do in this situation?
First off, kick your self in the ass for even asking anyone on a chat and convo forum to give you a serious response... dude, you should know better.
duh................
But on a serious note, wouldn't you want her qualities as a mother of your own child? OR would you prefer a person that puts off her child for the pleasure of SEX?
I also was one to want, desire, need it 2-3 times a day... My previous beau would provide, but with current circumstance Its kinda null and void for me, but that is ok. My focus is on my kids, my life, advancement in my career, etc...
Weird for my beau when I told him after a long term relaionship, sex 3 times a day sometimes... me, miss lil sex maniac... that I wasn't going to have sex with anyone until marriage... he actually thought I was seeing someone else. That is not the case, however I have my priorities in order and though sex is upmost pleasurable, its not a main focus in my life.
Don't ruin a bond between the both of you due to sex... DON'T
Respect her devotion to her child... what would you tell your daughter to do in this situation?
all the whey
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Forge said:
Like I said.
Almost all guys have felt this way.
Your situation is not new.
Unfortunately, this is how you have to treat women.
CrazyRussian
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all the whey said:Like I said.
Almost all guys have felt this way.
Your situation is not new.
Unfortunately, this is how you have to treat women.
rotflmao @ gif
all the whey said:Like I said.
Almost all guys have felt this way.
Your situation is not new.
Unfortunately, this is how you have to treat women.
lol
treat women?
she puts her child above instant gratification of penetration of a penis...
So, treat her how? I would give this woman respect for that ... but that is just me. Men are confused as to what they want in a relationship IMO.
Forge
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Frisky said:
Hi Frisky. I’m not asking her to devote less time to her child, she is a fantastic mother to her and I admire that greatly in her. But if her and I are going to be in a relationship, then she needs to give me some attention too. She needs to make time for us as well. I fully understand the hardships of being a single mom, that’s why I’ve been going out of my way to help lessen the load on her, to make things easier for her. I’ve been spending A LOT of time with the kid. But I’d like something more than a goodnight kiss and “talk to you later” for my efforts. Sex is very important to me in a relationship.
And like Whey said, it’s not just about the sex. I do so much for her but ask next to nothing in return, is a little action now and then truly too much to ask? Are women really OK with the men putting forth all the effort and the women simply enjoying the free ride? Why can’t the man’s needs and desires be an important part of a relationship too, even when a kid is involved? Does the kid really relegate the man to such a low priority?
Forge said:
You and I will prolly not agree on this subject... LOL, but thats ok.
You see, I've been that mother, the one that was in her shoes and its not all that easy being a single mom. You are doing the right thing by being very laxed... you also do have a child right? When he is with you, do you put him off in any kind of way for someone else? Think about it...
Are you ready to make a commited relationship with this woman? If you really desire her devotion to you shouldn't you give her such? (yes... wow... this all coming from Frisky... eek... ) Seems you two are uneaqually yoked right now. Her dedication is to being a mother, and rightly so... I don't fault her one bit for that. Point blank, you are another relationship that may progress from pt A to pt B... and then maybe not.
How do you expect her to devote more time to you with out a soild string to hold on to?
Now really... you said how wonderful you two get along... how you just click (so to say) Is sex.......SEX.... that important that it is worth ruining a relationship with a woman you know is a wonderful mother and companion? Or would you take that sacrifice for a future with someone whom you know with commitment would be just as equally devoted to you?
all the whey
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Frisky said:
We are saying it is stupid to have to treat a girl with games. They should appreciate being teated great.
I am glad you respect her for putting her kids above teh penis.
I however don't respect women who selfishly get married and have kids too young, because they are insecure or whatever. Then, put the kids through a divorce. Then, bring different men in and out of their lives.
That is a little worse than cutting back on the sex with the guy that is doing everything for you, and justifying it by saying "It's for teh keeeeeds!".
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