I'm not getting enough sex in my current relationship...

[Forge]

You and I will prolly not agree on this subject... LOL, but thats ok.

You see, I've been that mother, the one that was in her shoes and its not all that easy being a single mom. You are doing the right thing by being very laxed... you also do have a child right? When he is with you, do you put him off in any kind of way for someone else? Think about it...

Are you ready to make a commited relationship with this woman? If you really desire her devotion to you shouldn't you give her such? (yes... wow... this all coming from Frisky... eek... ) Seems you two are uneaqually yoked right now. Her dedication is to being a mother, and rightly so... I don't fault her one bit for that. Point blank, you are another relationship that may progress from pt A to pt B... and then maybe not.

How do you expect her to devote more time to you with out a soild string to hold on to?

Now really... you said how wonderful you two get along... how you just click (so to say) Is sex.......SEX.... that important that it is worth ruining a relationship with a woman you know is a wonderful mother and companion? Or would you take that sacrifice for a future with someone whom you know with commitment would be just as equally devoted to you?

No Frisky, my ex-wife and I never had children.

And yes, the relationship is most definately unequally yoked right now, that's what has me upset. I am in a committed relationship with her already, it just feels like she isn't committing all the way into me.

Is sex worth ruining a relationship over? I don't know. To me it's an integral part of a relationship, an important part. It's a huge motivation factor for a me in a relationship. Without it the drive, the intimacy, the desire, just isn't there. At least certainly not at the same levels they would be with a healthy regular sex life.

 

[all the whey]

No Frisky, my ex-wife and I never had children.

And yes, the relationship is most definately unequally yoked right now, that's what has me upset. I am in a committed relationship with her already, it just feels like she isn't committing all the way into me.

Is sex worth ruining a relationship over? I don't know. To me it's an integral part of a relationship, an important part. It's a huge motivation factor for a me in a relationship. Without it the drive, the intimacy, the desire, just isn't there. At least certainly not at the same levels they would be with a healthy regular sex life.

We have all been there.

But, I hate it when women justify whatever the situation is by saying they are doing it the benefit of the kids.

I got tired of hearing shit from mom's like frisky said. "Forge you are being selfish for wanting to keep the same level of sex and intimacy. I had to cut back on the sex for my Keeeds!!!! "Don't you care about my keeeds??"

 

[fistfullofsteel]

she cheating on you and banging some other dude, or dudes

 

[Sub-Zero]

she cheating on you and banging some other dude, or dudes

this is the obvious response.

shes rotating you around, and other dudes are getting the other days of the week

 

[fistfullofsteel]

this is the obvious response.

shes rotating you around, and other dudes are getting the other days of the week

you are correct, and she is probably dyking out too

 

[velvett]

Life is funny as woman.

If you're over 28 and unmarried and without children there must be something wrong with you.

If you're under 35 and with children and either divorced or a single mother - you're fucked because you have someone else's baggage that breathes.

And of course if you're over 35 it doesn't really matter because you're old as shit and no one cares.

Life for men..

Fuck often, hope you don't knock one of those bitches up and hope that your wanker doesn't fall off before 40.































DISCLAIMER: (because I know I need one on this board) these comments do not reflect the mind set of this poster - they are merely said in the light of humor and vague observation

 

[Frisky]

Life is funny as woman.

If you're over 28 and unmarried and without children there must be something wrong with you.

If you're under 35 and with children and either divorced or a single mother - you're fucked because you have someone else's baggage that breathes.

And of course if you're over 35 it doesn't really matter because you're old as shit and no one cares.

Life for men..

Fuck often, hope you don't knock one of those bitches up and hope that your wanker doesn't fall off before 40.































DISCLAIMER: (because I know I need one on this board) these comments do not reflect the mind set of this poster - they are merely said in the light of humor and vague observation

have I told you lately that I love you?

 

[Frisky]

We have all been there.

But, I hate it when women justify whatever the situation is by saying they are doing it the benefit of the kids.

I got tired of hearing shit from mom's like frisky said. "Forge you are being selfish for wanting to keep the same level of sex and intimacy. I had to cut back on the sex for my Keeeds!!!! "Don't you care about my keeeds??"

lol

no wonder we have so many single mothers

 

[all the whey]

lol

no wonder we have so many single mothers

Because women won't stop breeding with losers.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You have been dating this woman two months total and already you are babysitting her child?

You sleep over, as in you are in the bed with her mom and she sees you there in the morning?

I dunno, sounds REAL FAST for me.

I was separated/divorced for nearly over 6 years before I remarried. In that time my girls met two men. I married the second.

And everyone knows I dated a HELLALOT. I only left my children wtih a paid sitter on *my time* once with a young girl who was my nanny, more like another one of my daughters. It was for about 3 hours while I went to an afternoon wedding reception with a man that I was nearly engaged to.

Even when I did date somewhat steadily, I never wanted to see the guy more than twice a week and rarely did I/he stay over.

So I really do not understand how the situation arose. I mean, didn't you guys talk about a certain commitment level before you starting sleeping over?

Honestly, not trying to sound harsh, but Forge you sound needy. She is a single mother with a young child and I don't think that you should have been around the baby if you are more concerned with getting MORE SEX from her mother than about the relationship with a POTENTIAL FAMILY.

There are many times when I would love to have sex with my husband but I can't for many reasons, one is depression (becayse of the situation with my children), the other are health issues. So he should cheat because he isn't getting enough?

PS - Velvett, have I told you lately that I love you.... too?!