I'm not getting enough sex in my current relationship...

[puddlemonkey]

I dont think you should

I dont wanna share kids with another woman, so I never dated a man with kids. Wouldnt still today.

My personal preference too.

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jh- 0

 

[blueta2]

She says she appreciates it very much, I just wish she would show it more often.

And if I play any more hard to get then the sex will stop completely! It seems like I am almost always the one initiating it, if I stop then I’m afraid it stops.

But like All the Whey said, my helping her out and such (even though she may appreciate it) isn’t getting results. Maybe I do need to hold back some, make her remember what it was like before we started seeing each other. I’m not good at holding back, at not giving 110% in relationships, but perhaps I need to see if she will step up and come after me if I give some slack.

Hell at worst we grow apart, break up, and I resume fishing for a woman again. At best she comes around and meets my needs.

Don't listen to All The Whey....his brain has been eaten my cats!
I'm not really saying to play a game but seriously just put your energy into something else besides sex. Let her want it a little also. When men give off that "needy" sex vibes and we know we can have it whenever we want, we want it less.
We're women, we love what we can't have!
You're relationship is still in the early stages, just have fun and stop worry about so much so quickly

 

[puddlemonkey]

We're women, we love what we can't have!

FINALLY!!!!!! After all these years one admits it! She's right though bro, playing the needy sex card is suicide, its over. Cut your losses and move on.

 

[vixensghost]

Oh I like it. "Come one, come all, get your Nad Buzzies here"

Oh you little vixen with the 9 volt. I'll need a AAA for now, but eventually I'll need the car size battery ;-)

LOL......hahaha! Oh frig I am lol here!

Car battery? Your man must have nads the size of baseballs to carry that size nad buzzer!I like him without ever havin met him!(wink wink)

 

[jh1]

Hire a babysitter twice a week. If I counted correct, this will give you fours days of sex.

IF that is not enough, hire a nanny.

Hire a hot baby sitter or nanny and you can make that like 8 or even 16 times a week...

dirty little whores they are...

 

[puddlemonkey]

Put your hand down half stack.

 

[vixensghost]

Hire a hot baby sitter or nanny and you can make that like 8 or even 16 times a week...

dirty little whores they are...

lol...You have a point!

 

[all the whey]

Don't listen to All The Whey....his brain has been eaten my cats!
I'm not really saying to play a game but seriously just put your energy into something else besides sex. Let her want it a little also. When men give off that "needy" sex vibes and we know we can have it whenever we want, we want it less.
We're women, we love what we can't have!
You're relationship is still in the early stages, just have fun and stop worry about so much so quickly

Do you realize we are saying basically the same thing? Except, you are sugar coating it more.

Women see you as "needy" when you are available to them and for them at all times. It would make more sense if the wanted you more for doing everthing for them and being available at all times. But, that is not the way it is.

I also agree women want what they can't have. But, Forge is feeling unapreciated, and taken for granted because he does all those things for her. Almost all of us men have been there.

I was just saying to cut back doing things for her, and being available at all times. Then, he will find out if she is just using him.


BTW. It is more than just the sex. I bet his feeling that he is unapreciated bothers him more.

 

[Forge]

Don't listen to All The Whey....his brain has been eaten my cats!
I'm not really saying to play a game but seriously just put your energy into something else besides sex. Let her want it a little also. When men give off that "needy" sex vibes and we know we can have it whenever we want, we want it less.
We're women, we love what we can't have!
You're relationship is still in the early stages, just have fun and stop worry about so much so quickly

But that’s just it, you ARE saying to play a game. You are saying that I can’t be honest with her, that I should pretend we are in a high school relationship and act like I don’t want it when I really do.

I’m not a good liar, I’m not one to say one thing but mean another. Are you saying it’s needy to tell her how much I want to have sex with her? I’ve never had problems being honest about sex with other women. Usually my gf’s are crazy horny from all the sex we have, usually they appreciate my upfront honesty. Maybe she has the problem, not me. If she can’t handle the truth and it turns her “off” because wanting regular sex makes me “needy”, then what the hell?

The relationship is early, this is the honeymoon phase, we should be fucking like rabbits in heat. She should be wanting to have sex more than once a week.. It may be easy for women to stop worrying about sex, but us men have drives, we have impulses, we have lusts. We do things for our women in hopes of ultimately getting action. Maybe it’s just hard for a woman to understand how much sex means to a man…

Women love what they can’t have? How about appreciating what you do have? How about leaving the games to the teenagers?




Note Blueta I’m not ranting on you personally, you seem like a very nice gal, it’s just that your post kind of irritated me. I hate when women resort to the game playing attitude, is it too much to ask for maturity and honesty in an adult relationship?

 

[jh1]

lol...You have a point!

opens shit up for the 3way too... which is uber-bonus material...