Velvett beat me to it. wtf? sometimes shit happens. wtf does it matter if you've been with someone 2 years or 20 years? it's not a fucking bank account, it's happiness, and it doesn't mature the same way. you take happiness here and now. don't fall for the heavens reward fallacy, there is no pay off. you talk about a womans history, but to be fair, what about ours? you know how fucking turned off women are when they find out i used to manage a titty bar?? they don't like history , either. so, in retrospect, i think you should take it when you get, no matter where you are in life. btw, i hate young people.