I think it's a good idea to find your love in early 20s

[biteme]

so are you saying that if a couple marries at the age of 24 let's say, they will never grow out of that age? Practice makes better, with time you get better.

I do know for a fact that I will not marry untill I feel I've achieved enaugh success, nor will I marry an unsuccesful wife. I think successful people enjoy the most happiness, however they need love to fulfill their life.

Success is relative, but pretty much true. Money can't buy happiness, but it sure can help and being poor sux ass.

 

[deco]

Well that's what I mean. Girls who marry bouncers, djs and some athletes with no future is a marriage that's almost guaranteed to fail. And I'm not saying anything against those guys as I was 2 an athlete and a bouncer myself but everything has it's time in life. My roomate who just graduated and got a degree in liberal studies sits at home and plays video games till 5am. This is because he got carried away with his job as a promoter at nightclubs. He quit his job now that he graduated in hopes of getting a real job, but come on it's liberal studies, not gonna happen. So basically what happened? people who he thouight were his friends stopped calling, no job with whole lot of loans on his shoulders. All of his actual friends have 70K+ jobs fuckin with higher standard girls as opposed to the regular club sluts/strippers that you see at clubs. Driving a luxury car which they can actualy afford as opposed to where he has to sell his escalade now cause he bought it with college loans. And lastly his girlfriend is in the process of dumping his ass. Shes smart I'll give you that much, some girls marry guys like him and expect everything to be okay. No, he was a former male slut who can't get laid no more, no money and he plays god damn video games all day long. Lesson learned, don't suck at life as much as he does. He's an okay guy, but dumb.

 

[javaguru]

IMO, nobody should marry before the age of thirty. Both people should be well established in life and their career. In yoru early twenties you really are trying to figure out what you want/need. That's a gross generalization but often true.

 

[thelion2005]

I'm saying that because the older you get harder it gets obviously. I dont want to meet a 40 year old beat up puntang woman some day and know that deep inside she went through some real bullshit. How am I supposed to marry someone who is an emotional wreck and probobly hates men. All the bullshit that you do have in common you're not going to enjoy it as much as you would when you were growing up as childs. How am I supposed to open up to someone who has so much hidden history behind her? I know the she won't do that either. It's going to be half ass love, not even. Anyway, to summerize, I believe that finding a connection/chemistry between the two is lot easier in your younger years. As far as sex goes, well as long as your both willing you can outfuck anyone else out there.

WOW!! Think you'll never get old? Think love is gone after 20? 30? 40 for sure?

It just keeps getting better and better.

And there are plenty of very beautiful and fit "older" women out there
with no bad memories and bagage.

I will concede though that the 20's and 30's is the time to get your kids behind you. They are a lot of work.

 

[velvett]

I'm saying that because the older you get harder it gets obviously. I dont want to meet a 40 year old beat up puntang woman some day and know that deep inside she went through some real bullshit. How am I supposed to marry someone who is an emotional wreck and probobly hates men. All the bullshit that you do have in common you're not going to enjoy it as much as you would when you were growing up as childs. How am I supposed to open up to someone who has so much hidden history behind her? I know the she won't do that either. It's going to be half ass love, not even. Anyway, to summerize, I believe that finding a connection/chemistry between the two is lot easier in your younger years. As far as sex goes, well as long as your both willing you can outfuck anyone else out there.

Dude, your age is showing or lack there of...

I think it's a good idea to find your love in early 20s

Tell that to all the 20 somethings on their 1st or 2nd divorce.

 

[velvett]

I guess it's different for everyone but it seems even on this board, you got all these men and women complaining about relationships who are in their 30s. I dont know, everyone to each of his own. It's just it seems like every other thread that I see on here it's always men are pigs, women are sluts, when did you last get laid, have you ever dumped someone for no reason. It makes it look like these people are going through a struggle.
Ive seen some succesful marriages that have been acomplished in their later stages however the most succesfulls I've seen are the american dream, hs sweatheart meatheart type of shit. Then again, i'm in my early 20s and I havent seen the whole world even though it's plenty more then anyone else I know. Just an opinon, don't kill me for it but the threads on these boards certainly point to that direction.

Much better post.

 

[Dial_tone]

If you find it that early you develop a false sense of security and think it's easy to come by. Chances are you will do stupid shit because you think you can find somebody else anytime.

 

[Sassy69]

LMAO at love being "half-assed" cuz you're over 30.....

i gotta agree there. Although as you get older, the chance of people looking & being a little more war torn increases. I'd like to think I'm a bit of an exception that just happened to end up being single at this moment. I know I'm a hot ass 40 yr old tho

I think around 30 is a good time to get married. I see a significant difference in maturity before & after age 30. Personally I have very little tolerance for most people under 30 these days. I just can't deall w/ the bullshit & drama they seem to be so embroiled in. I don't like to make broad generalizations -there certainly are exceptions, but that is what my own statistically insignificant observations lead me to hypothesize.

I also see a lot of people who did get married 'young', have a crap load of kids and are miserable because they didn't get to be 'young', weren't ready, weren't far enough along in their careers to provide a stable environment for their kids and are sort of stuck. The results is some pretty messy divorces where the kids suffer. But again, broad generalization.

 

[deco]

IMO, nobody should marry before the age of thirty. Both people should be well established in life and their career. In yoru early twenties you really are trying to figure out what you want/need. That's a gross generalization but often true.

I agree

On the other hand there's a huge misunderstanding here and it's actually all my fault. But what I meant is more like finding your wife to be in your early twenties. I didn't mean to say you need to get married in your early twenties, that's stupid.

 

[deco]

If you find it that early you develop a false sense of security and think it's easy to come by. Chances are you will do stupid shit because you think you can find somebody else anytime.

I know what you mean however, looking at others obviously finding love is not easy so when it comes you better keep to it.