I think it's a good idea to find your love in early 20s

[deco]

I'm saying that because the older you get harder it gets obviously. I dont want to meet a 40 year old beat up puntang woman some day and know that deep inside she went through some real bullshit. How am I supposed to marry someone who is an emotional wreck and probobly hates men. All the bullshit that you do have in common you're not going to enjoy it as much as you would when you were growing up as childs. How am I supposed to open up to someone who has so much hidden history behind her? I know the she won't do that either. It's going to be half ass love, not even. Anyway, to summerize, I believe that finding a connection/chemistry between the two is lot easier in your younger years. As far as sex goes, well as long as your both willing you can outfuck anyone else out there.

 

[mrplunkey]

I'm saying that because the older you get harder it gets obviously. I dont want to meet a 40 year old beat up puntang woman some day and know that deep inside she went through some real bullshit. How am I supposed to marry someone who is an emotional wreck and probobly hates men. All the bullshit that you do have in common you're not going to enjoy it as much as you would when you were growing up as childs. How am I supposed to open up to someone who has so much hidden history behind her? I know the she won't do that either. It's going to be half ass love, not even. Anyway, to summerize, I believe that finding a connection/chemistry between the two is lot easier in your younger years. As far as sex goes, well as long as your both willing you can outfuck anyone else out there.

Early marriage... then people change... then you find yourself married to a stranger.

Early marriages are very problematic. IMO you should marry after 40.

 

[StickFigure]

I have to disagree. Been there and done that, divorced twice and got the shirt. I have recently found the love of my life and I'm 34. I believe I have a much clearer idea of what I want in a woman now.

 

[nycgirl]

Oh, no not at all.

Actually, I think its best to go through some drama in your early 20's. Get some battle scars. Get your life threatened by a few baby mommas. Shit like that makes you a stronger woman. Makes you appreciate the little shit. Keeps you from bitching and nagging about insignificant stuff. Be able to sift through the B.S. Strong enough to be on your own. Teach you how to LOVE yourself first. Learn about who you are.

Its best when you are in your late 20's or 30's. Oh, and so is the sex.

 

[theoak01]

i think for everyone its different,dont pass up oppourtunities but dont look at relationships as a serious thing from the start,just have fun

 

[Raina]

You change so much from your early 20's to even your mid 20's. Everyone has baggage. Everyone. That's just part of life. I'd rather know who I am and what I want and meet someone who's on the same page.

 

[jenscats5]

LMAO at love being "half-assed" cuz you're over 30.....

 

[PBR]

deco....you have a point there. however, "time" has a way with everything.
as MILF69 put it: "there is love of course, but then there is life, its enemy"....

 

[hardrock]

I say enjoy your 20's and date. marry in your 30's, but marry a 20 something chick

 

[deco]

I guess it's different for everyone but it seems even on this board, you got all these men and women complaining about relationships who are in their 30s. I dont know, everyone to each of his own. It's just it seems like every other thread that I see on here it's always men are pigs, women are sluts, when did you last get laid, have you ever dumped someone for no reason. It makes it look like these people are going through a struggle.
Ive seen some succesful marriages that have been acomplished in their later stages however the most succesfulls I've seen are the american dream, hs sweatheart meatheart type of shit. Then again, i'm in my early 20s and I havent seen the whole world even though it's plenty more then anyone else I know. Just an opinon, don't kill me for it but the threads on these boards certainly point to that direction.