I have been running field tests on male / female courtship interactions.

[USMC fighter]

This sounds stupid but if you want more attension just put on a wedding ring. Idont know why it works, but damnit it works.

 

[Dekaxx]

what does it mean when you're with a girl at a bar and she does this:

http://www.sunfyre.com/images/pix/113.jpg

would that be a 'signal'?

LOL that was funny reminded me about this time i was at a company Xmas party and one of the Superintendents wife pulled that one me, or basically lifted her skirt up and started touching herself great party

 

[sliprock2]

confidence is everything

 

[JayC9]

-Women either find you attractive or they don’t.
While men might lower their standards during time of “drought”, women stay pretty consistent and are likely to hold out till they find a guy they like enough to sleep with.

-Even if you are an ugly Mofo you might be able to “grow” on them… But it won’t happen in a couple of hours at a noisy night club. You have to spend some serious time in the “friend zone” before your ugly ass gets some play from a hot bitch. She has to realize your ugly ass won’t stray because nobody else wants you. And she has to finaly grow tired of bagging handsome guys who treat them like shit cause they have too many options.

-Most of them will act a little bit “uninterested” even if they want to fuck you on the spot. They want you to at least TRY. Even if the pussy is yours when you said “hello”, she still wants to feel like you earned it. (Notice I said “a little bit uninterested” if she turns her back on you and walks away that usually a nice way of saying “piss off”)

-A girl looking for a relationship: If she is attracted to you, and interested: You can lose her in 1 second by saying something real stupid. If she likes you, and you have no game… keep your fucking mouth shut. It is better to sit in silence and appear ignorant than to open your mouth and confirm it. It is better to seem “quiet and mysterious” not “talkative and dumb”. Ok so you are a duffus and you want to go out with this gourgeous chick… Again, keep your fucking mouth shut as much as possible, be sweet, nice, caring and courtageous. She might overlook your peanut size brain for your gigantic heart.

-A girl just looking for a good time: If she is attracted to you: She does not care if your approach is corny or you don’t have 2 brain cells to make a spark. She will laugh at your stupid jokes and ignore you looking at her tits all night. She will wish you make a good enough effort of smoothing her into bed, makes her feel less guilty if it seems like you actually had to try.
WARNING: you can still fuck this up… You still have to appear Sane and never make her feel like the whole neighborhood is going to know you boned her. She needs to feel like you are a capable of having sex with her, respecting her in the morning, being nice, and staying the fuck out of her face when she wants you to. She also doesn’t want to feel like you are using her like a slut… yes deep down inside she might feel cheap for banging you dumb ass… but she needs to feel a certain level of comfort with you.
Even if she wants nothing more than dick from you, she might still call you every now and then just to “talk”, be nice, keep it light, short and friendly.
Never be a jerk or rub in her face how many other sluts you are banging. You might be too busy hitting random pussy to fit her into your rotation this week, But Never Tell Her That, tell her you are working and have too much to do, you’ll see her next week. Yes she only wants some dick and she probably knows you are fucking other chicks, but she doesn’t need to hear you tell her she is the “Monday Afternoon chick”.
The name of the game is: She knows what she is, you know what she is, but never talk about it. You will keep getting some poohtang till she decides she wants something serious and leaves your handsome ass for an ugly dude with a brain and a good job.

This may not apply to most women. I have come to some of these conclusions thru anecdotal experience and nothing more.

some naked home truths right there

 

[HiDnGoD]

Yes you are right, women do lie, maybe more than men do... But they can do that if they wish. Why? Cause they hold the power since they have the poohntang.
We can sit there and argue this point with every women we meet, and we might be right but it will never get us anywhere.
There is an old saying in sales "Do you want to be right? OR do you want to make the Sale?" I guess the way it would apply here is: "Do you want to tell a chick how wrong she is? OR do you want to get some pussy?"

I was wondering if you were in sales. I've read some Zig Ziglar & some of your phrases rang a bell.

 

[HiDnGoD]

I have found that generally sexism and hatred for women is correlated directly with how much of a "nice" guy you are. The shittier the guy(one that will cheat, treat a woman like shit, or try to steal friends gf's for a power trip) tend to love women much more then "nice" guys who I have found to despise women, and hate them. Problem is that whole push and pull, you treat a girl like shit(not too much) she has to be validated by you, and she thinks "he must be special" because I put up with his shit(cognitive dissonance, totally explains cops if you watch you know what I mean). A guy who treats a woman like a princess will get fucked over every time. She takes your affection for granted, will start to think that the reason I am with him is because of the way he treats me. Cheat on you, because they don't want to "hurt" you, and then evantually leave you.

Personal opinion from experiencing and watching both "assholes" and "nice guys" in relationships.

I think there is some truth to this, but it's not universal. My brother is a nice guy, really attentive. He got fucked over by his first wife(married 10 years - things started going south at 3), but his second just loves it, they've been together 8 yrs, getting more sickeningly sweet by the minute.
I'm a nice guy, not quite as nice as my brother. My wife & I have been together 25 yrs. We adore each other, however I do seem to get more extracuricular offers 'cause I'm a dick sometimes, to women I don't want.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

I was wondering if you were in sales. I've read some Zig Ziglar & some of your phrases rang a bell.

Sam I am. Life is about selling. You sell from the time you are little till the day you die... Not just about products and making money, but about convincing people and selling them on your point of view. Or selling them on you as the product.


You see a chick you like (prospect), you are absolutly sure that she would be happy spending time with you(product).
You are sure that she wants to be with you and will enjoy the time you espend together (confidence in your product).
So you try to make her realize it because she doesn't really know it yet. (the sale)...

She is finally convinced and buys YOU, so her knees part ways (The Close). It's all about good service and making her a return customer at that point.


-BRR

 

[Anybody]

the trick to gettin laid is staying in your league. If an ugly guy fucks a hot chick it's a freak accident and she's gonna regret it in the morning if she was sober enough to remember doing it.

There are some things you can do to improve your prospects a little bit, but don't expect to be nailing 8's if you're a 4. Forget what you've read or seen in the movies, the world just doesn't work that way. Looks are the first and by far the thickest line of defense, and to overcome a sizeable disparity you're gonna need a lot of money, fame, or alcohol.

 

[carlsuen]

lol.. besides BRR, u guys are pretty much single losers.. here's a tip

www.doubleyourdating.com

now go get laid..

guys who know this will back me up..

 

[Island Son]

lol.. besides BRR, u guys are pretty much single losers.. here's a tip

www.doubleyourdating.com

now go get laid..

guys who know this will back me up..

shhhhh.... let him think the 8's are out of his league