I prefer shades that are pretty close to my natural color - usually just a slight plum in them, though. Have you tried matching your natural color, and just going a shade darker? The ones I love are the ones with a color wand on one end and the gloss on the other......they last pretty much all day for color, and you just have to regloss every once in a while. No leaving lipstick marks on cups or straws or anything (i hate that) and it always looks pretty natural. No nasty lipstick taste, either. Cover Girl, Maybelline and Revlon all make them, I believe.....