Helping a chic move in.. too much of a "nice guy" after one date??

[rocksolid215]

So I meet this chick, we're both into each other and we went out the other night. Had an awesome time, etc, etc.

She's moving out Sunday, doesn't have much stuff, but she's hinted she'd like me to help.

Is this to much of a nice guy move if I do it? Just seems to me like flowers on a second date kind of thing which I would never do..

What do you guys and ladies think?

 

[dullboy]

unfortunately, you don't have enough knowledge about this girl to know whether she's really only attracted to scumbags or not. this constitutes 75% of hot girls under the age of 28. in nyc, where dullboy lives, this number is closer to 95%.

the reason why this number is relevant is that if the girl is only attracted to asshole guys, she won't respect you for helping her, as convoluted as that sounds.

dr. dullboy is professionally trained in clinical psychology so don't discount his opinions.

 

[Frisky]

Won't hurt

 

[rocksolid215]

I'm think I'm going on the she won't respect me thing, that's my instinct. Let her do it herself.

You just got to be careful not to get sucked in by the real hot ones (like this)...

Shit starting this thread is already a big mistake.

 

[dullboy]

I'm think I'm going on the she won't respect me thing, that's my instinct. Let her do it herself.

You just got to be careful not to get sucked in by the real hot ones (like this)...

Shit starting this thread is already a big mistake.

tell her that you have some important sounding thing to do on Sunday (like give some speech or go to a roast in your honor at your country club), and tell her about how terribly you feel about not being able to "see her" (don't say help her).

then immediately tell her you want to make it up to her by taking her out on xxxxx or xxxxx. always give 2 choices on dates.

see what sort of reponse you get.

 

[dullboy]

Won't hurt

well, he could hurt his back.

 

[rocksolid215]

Already done. I don't give a f*ck how good of a time we had, I told her I'm taking her out on the town next weekend. She said "thats cool i got plenty of dudes to help me"

hah! and why wouldn't she?

 

[Frisky]

you stupid mother fucker, i wasn't being an ass, but serioulsy what kinda fucking loser comes to a internet site to ask dating advice?

 

[Frisky]

btw hun, your little 1.5 red hit didn't scratch the surface.. come back when you actually mean something to ef and hit me

 

[Scooter28]

This is too much...lol...good call bro...too soon. Let her do it on her own.