Have you ever dropped a relationship

[StickFigure]

I have my dog, and she loves me unconditionally. She even gets all excited when I get home everyday even though I don't have supper cooked

I think you'll find the relationship a bit shallow. Plus, you'll go through about 4 of those relationships before you die.

 

[Frisky]

that your reality is based on fantasy.

You mean Cinderella isn't real?

 

[EnderJE]

Well Said.

Relationships are not meant to last. Some end in 3 days, some end in 3 weeks, others end at death. A real connection can happen with someone you only know for a brief amount of time. That said, sometimes people are not meant to be with each other. Shit happens.

There's a difference between an instinct (i.e., you feel that person is lying, or something isn't right) and being afraid to be with someone out of fear of getting hurt or not being able to give yourself to that person. If the reason why someone is dropping a relationship is because they are not comfortable (with him/herself or people, in general) or its because they are afraid, then its time to be alone for awhile.

You and Stick should get together.

 

[Frisky]

I think you'll find the relationship a bit shallow. Plus, you'll go through about 4 of those relationships before you die.

lol

I agree, I was just bullshitting silly.

I sure don't want a man at my ever beckon'call. My gosh that would be so irritating. Nor do I want a man that will just let me walk all over him.. Gets old QUICK (had one of those)

 

[H_T_]

You mean Cinderella isn't real?

no, i mean that triple wide foot ain't fittin' in that slipper.........

 

[Frisky]

no, i mean that triple wide foot ain't fittin' in that slipper.........

lol

do these jeans make my ass look fat?

 

[nycgirl]

But is it right to base a break up on instincts? If its just a feeling that you have, is it ok to confront him/her with it? I myself hated when my X would concoct something in his mind and come to me with it.

Not saying that the other reason is good either, cause either way.. the way I view relationships is fucked up.

With regard to your first paragraph, depends on how much is invested. If I had a thought about something, I would discuss with the person.

I think you need a break. Hangout with your girlfriends. Take your babies on some trips. Travel. Go to your favorite restaurant alone and ask for the table in the midddle of the place.

Enjoy the Spring and Summer completely single. I've done it. Its wonderful.

 

[StickFigure]

lol

I agree, I was just bullshitting silly.

I sure don't want a man at my ever beckon'call. My gosh that would be so irritating. Nor do I want a man that will just let me walk all over him.. Gets old QUICK (had one of those)

Just don't give up so easy. For someone with as much inner strength as you have, it really surprises me that this is an issue for you. Just hang in there doll.

 

[Frisky]

With regard to your first paragraph, depends on how much is invested. If I had a thought about something, I would discuss ith with the person.

I think you need a break. Hangout with your girlfriends. Take your babies on some trips. Travel. Go to your favorite restaurant alone and ask for the table in the midddle of the place.

Enjoy the Spring and Summer completely single. I've done it. Its wonderful.

I'll shoot you a msn tonight sugar

Yes I agree, a long long break. LOL.

 

[H_T_]

lol

do these jeans make my ass look fat?

no. your ass makes your ass look fat.