Have you ever dropped a relationship

[biteme]

I usually drop them after I've boned them 10 or so times. After that point, it either starts to get serious or you better run. Time to find fresh meat.

 

[Whiskey]

Does this mean you're breaking up with me!?! After all these years!?! YOu was just using me for sex wasn't you!! ............ I was used,.......... I WAS USED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whiskey

 

[Frisky]

Does this mean you're breaking up with me!?! After all these years!?! YOu was just using me for sex wasn't you!! ............ I was used,.......... I WAS USED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whiskey

I thought you'd never read this thread! It was just the sex, I'm sorry... now that i've identified my problem, i'm taking my first step to treatment.

 

[thelion2005]

for no apparent reason at all?

I've been told time and time again that the closer I get to liking someone, liking to spend time with them, the further I pull away. Mostly its because i begin to get a bad feeling about pursuing it. Sometimes its just because... I have no reason at all. I've had less than a handful (2) of relationships that have penetrated my outer core and I actually gave a shit about when it ended.

I'm sure some will say, I'll end up dying a loney ol hag.. but in a way, thats a OK, with me because I have to truely believe in someone to let them fully into my life. If there is one spark of hesitation along the ride than I'm usually out of there quick.

Never!

I keep at least contact unless there is a death.

Life is a circle, and that person just might come back through again
with you seeing things a lot differently.

 

[Whiskey]

I thought you'd never read this thread! It was just the sex, I'm sorry... now that i've identified my problem, i'm taking my first step to treatment.

That's just not right. I feel like a cheap piece of meat now.... at least I was paid upfront ;-)

Whiskey

 

[vinylgroover]

erzulie, you remind me a lot of my ex. she had the same fears as you and the same cynism about relationships. There are decent men out there who are worth taking that chance on. She was too scared to take a chance on being happy so she let a good man (me) go. when a woman tells you that you are the only man she could say was a positive influence on her life and then she walks away you are left thinking wtf?

As i said to her, run away from the things that are bad for you, not the things that are good for you

 

[beefcake28]

erzulie, you remind me a lot of my ex. she had the same fears as you and the same cynism about relationships. There are decent men out there who are worth taking that chance on. She was too scared to take a chance on being happy so she let a good man (me) go. when a woman tells you that you are the only man she could say was a positive influence on her life and then she walks away you are left thinking wtf?

As i said to her, run away from the things that are bad for you, not the things that are good for you

I agree. This same thing happened to me a couple days ago with my (now ex-)girlfriend of 3 years... It sucks. Hard.

Happy Fucking Valentine's Day....

 

[Frisky]

erzulie, you remind me a lot of my ex. she had the same fears as you and the same cynism about relationships. There are decent men out there who are worth taking that chance on. She was too scared to take a chance on being happy so she let a good man (me) go. when a woman tells you that you are the only man she could say was a positive influence on her life and then she walks away you are left thinking wtf?

As i said to her, run away from the things that are bad for you, not the things that are good for you

I've been in 4, what i'd consider LT relationships my entire life, two don't count because they were high school sweet heart thingy's. The others were in my adult life. I know the problem I have just don't know the solution to the problem. I like a stable life, no guess work, nice and tidy... organized and no ups and downs.

I've had a few men enter my life that were postive influences but just didn't quite 'click' with them. Made for good friends, but not partners.

I have to learn to accept the bad to get to the good... I am working on it

 

[velvett]

Erz...

Sometimes you just need a little time on your own...

 

[Frisky]

Erz...

Sometimes you just need a little time on your own...

wise words m'lady, I've had another very intelligent lady tell me the same thing abunch of times.

Dating isn't my forte' .... So I've discovered. I make dates and then soon after cancel them.. Just not into it I guess. A bit of solitude would do me great