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Do any of you have trouble with casual sex?

casual sex sucks.....

i mean its all good ad the time, but it always turns into someone wanting something more, and someone ends up getting hurt
 
I can't have casual sex because I have long-term relationship goals. Casual sex doesn't fit in that picture. I find it tough enough to deal with the fact that once you reach adulthood, sex tends to come earlier in a relatonship, and you find yourself getting to know someone in bed and out, simultaneously.

I don't want to sleep with someone, and then decide there's something I don't like about them. I never liked to deprive myself of pleasure, however, and if I decide to trust someone I don't like holding back. It was a problem that kept me single for a long time, I dated here and there, but when I met my boyfriend I was glad I'd behaved the way I had.
 
b fold the truth said:
Guess I just feel differently. One of my last ex's left me after a year and a half because I would not sleep with her.

B True

Two questions. One, are you a virgin? Two, weren't you in love with that girl? I don't see the point in staying with someone for a year and a half if you don't love them. Personally, if I don't think that there's some serious potential, then I'm done with a girl after two or three or maybe four months. It doesn't make sense to me to stay with someone so long if you don't love them.
 
Xalthus said:
Never in my life, would i fuck a girl not knowing who she is, what she is like.. IF i wanna fuck with a girl, i want her to love me and me to love her. Its more special.. If i just wanna fuck around i can release that tension in the bathroom with my lube...
You are obviously confronting ugly strangers. Some of the hottest chicks I ever met had my pants down that same night. All men (with functioning genetalia) will fuck a stranger if its the right stranger....ALL MEN.
 
It depends upon what you mean by casual. Years ago I had a female friend who every 2 weeks to a month we would get together buy large box of condoms and fuck each others brains out. Now she was one of my closest friends and I would do anything for her. We were just not in love, we loved each other as friends and were extremely attracted to each other and had a lot of fun. It was a more when the moment struck kinda thing that we just kept between us. She knew about dates I had I knew about dates she had, thus the condoms. That to me was casual.

Now casual as hey I just met you at a bar and of course I trust you that you dont have any diseases, and I completely believe you that you never do anything like this normally ..lol. Please. That isnt casual sex it is dangerous sex.

I cared far too much for my health then to ever do something like that, and I am glad I am out of the dating game so I dont have to worry bout it now.
 
Interesting thread and opinions, so I'll add my .02 for what it's worth. (and with today's economy, that isn't much! :-)

I, personally do not equate sex with love, but I did when I was younger. Although I prefer to have sex with someone I CARE about, I do not need to "Love" them in the traditional sense to meet each others needs and make someone feel good or special. I like the term "Friends with Benefits". To me, sex is a physical meeting of two people, that can reach a emotional/mental connection also. I can also love someone without having sex with them. Better put, you have to stimulate me mentally for me to "love" you in more way's than just a friend, but you don't, if we just want to have great sex. Make sense or clear as mud? Any thoughts on this?

Max.
 
originally posted by mdd

i mean its all good at the time, but it always turns into someone wanting something more, and someone ends up getting hurt


Boy if that isn't the truth. But, saying "hey lets go back to my place and fuck until dawn, and then I never want to see you again." Doesn't work to often.
 
Max Muscle- I tend to agree with you. I don't need to be in love with someone to sleep with them. Just caring about them is enough for me. Hell, I suppose just being highly attracted to them is enough, as long as I've gotten to know them a little bit. Although, I will say that "making love" is certainly a lot better than "having sex." I never believed that until I actually did it. I love making love. There's something about being in love with someone that makes sex all that much better. I don't know exactly what it is, but it's true.
 
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