Do any of you have trouble with casual sex?

[Grizzly]

Ok, this question is for people who have actually had the opportunity. It's not for people who would like to have a one nighter or whatever because I love the idea of meeting some cutie and then fucking the shit out of her after knowing her only a few hours, but I just can't really do it. After 5 one-nighters I know that they're not my bag.

So, do any of you have trouble with casual sex? I had a great opportunity last night, but I just talked to her instead because I didn't know her well enough to feel comfortable sleeping with her. Now, tonight is a different story. I'll still feel semi-uncomfortable, but I've gotten to know her well enough to do the deed, which is good because I've wanted to get her naked for a few months now. I was just wondering if I'm weird or if ya'll people need to get to know people before you sleep with them.

 

[Sassy69]

DAMN! A guy w/ a conscience! Quick take a picture!

I'm there with ya. I have so little interest in one-nighters or any of that right now. My experience is that if you sleep w/ someone before u get to know them, that's all you will ever do with them. Meaning, you basically have established the type of relationship it will be and it can't be changed. There's pretty much no chance of having a relationship after that. Plus it seems like each person has established that they are "easy" and that may be later interpretted against them. So the chance for relationship is screwed again.

I've also found the sex relationship to be better w/ someone I know as a friend first anyway.

I guess it depends on what you want out of it. If you see a person that u know u just want to have sex with and NOTHING else, then go for it. But I am not interested in that at all, so it probably won't happen. Not to mention, the whole safe sex thing....

Just my thoughts....

 

[Xalthus]

Never in my life, would i fuck a girl not knowing who she is, what she is like.. IF i wanna fuck with a girl, i want her to love me and me to love her. Its more special.. If i just wanna fuck around i can release that tension in the bathroom with my lube...

 

[dancer]

Wait you mean to tell me that there is such a thing other than casual sex... ok there have been times that i have wanted to wait to get to know her but no such luck I just always fuck n the first opertunity and on other occasions that i have not fucked at first contact its been some sort of head game i've been playing.... PS since you didn't fuck her someone else probebly did

 

[boss]

NOT A PROBLEM AT ALL, DAMN MY GOAL IS TO FUCK THE WHOLE WORLD. [GIRLS THAT IS!]

 

[b fold the truth]

I have a hard enough problem kissing a woman, much less sleeping with her casually. Don't think that I ever could unless I loved them with everything that I had.

B True

 

[Laserdude]

I have a friend (gal) who is arranging for me to meet one of her friends. She is a latina girl and wants to fuck. So I guess with all of the test in my system right now, I will do the deed.

It is apparent that this girl met me once and she mentioned to her to arrange a "date".

I hope to hear from her tommorrow morning about it. Wish me luck as I could use a good fuck. I have great stamina, and can go for quite awhile, so she is in for a VERY good time. Lord knows I could use a good lay. Hope to do this with her more that just once.

Condom will be used, just in case.

YAW!!!

 

[rnch]

in my late teens and early twenties, having "slam-bam-thank-ya-ma'am" sex was not an issue.

now that i'm a little older and supposidly more mature, it just doesn't happen any more.

i have turned into one of those fossils that equate love with sex.

to be blunt about it, if i don't feel it in my heart, i can't feel it in my dick.

to me, sex is an expression of, an extension of, the .....warmth, tenderness, affection i feel for the other person.

i'm probably gonna get flamed and ridiculed big time for taking this view point; well, so be it.

 

[Test boy]

I pretty much lost my interest in one night stands as well. Just not worth the risks involved. And not too much more satisfying than jacking off....well OK, it is a LOT more satisfying. But still risky.

 

[Salvattore]

You are a fucking faggot dude!