damn my step-son is in trouble

[luigisacs]

there aint nobody around who can take his ass out behind the shed and kick the shit out of it? that is what he needs. a good ass whooping. somebody punch the fucker out.

+1

My father used to smack the shit out of me. Kept me on the straight and narrow.

 

[SpyWizard]

sounds like he needs his head pulled in and you should be doin this! doing some time will straighten him out and if you cant controll him n he keeps going it sounds like thats where hes gona end up..

it might fix him..

but if you don't fight for him not to go.. he'll just refocus his anger and blame you for everything..

good luck..

 

[advanced-stealth]

A good lawyer will help but also you need to have a long talk with him about where he is heading with his life good luck.

 

[xrsist]

it might fix him..

but if you don't fight for him not to go.. he'll just refocus his anger and blame you for everything..

good luck..

from what i know it will.. a big tough 18yr old kid isnt so big n tough once he walks inside, then he will start to think to him self 'do i really wanna come back here'..

 

[Mrpumped]

Try sitting down and making a deal with him. Lokk in your local area on the net for AA or NA meetings. Make an agreement with him to go sit in at leat a couple of meetings. After he hears what drugs and alcohol has done to so many others, it might help him to see the what the future will hold for those behaviors. To be honest, you can only try, the change has to be what he really wants to do. Good Luck.

 

[big.nad]

no harm to him but he doesnt seem to want to learn by his mistakes. many chances does he need.

its a good boot up the hole he needs.

u say he gets tested twice a week for alcohol and drugs, and passed all of them??? then why was he cuaght with drink while being underage?

no offence man but i know people that were jailed for things they didnt do. this guy should have caught himself on long b4 now!

 

[hondas2k666]

the thing is that alcohol only stays in ur system for so long and its out really quick. they say if your blood alcohol level is 1.5 which is wated out of ur mind, the alcohol will be out of your system within 10 hours. so he gets tested every tuesday and thursday. he can drink on wednesday, get wasted and still pass thursdays test, but they focus mainly on drugs and i know he doesnt do drugs anymore. the only drugs he did was weed and he told me that he gets bad highs and just feels like shit when he smokes so he choses not to smoke. i believe him. im just worried about him going to juvie for possession of alcohol. but then again, they might bring back his old charges with the weed and weapon since hes still on probation.

 

[xrsist]

just make sure he hasnt gone from smoking weed to smoking meth..

 

[BigBlu]

Seriously suggest to him that he enlist in the marines and talk to the recuiter about going into a infantry unit. It will either make or break him.

How is being trained to kill other people going to make a 'good man' out of this kid? This is what I don't get about people. They seem to be oblivious to the purpose of the Defence Forces (now Attack Forces). It looks all glorious with nice uniforms, high tech machinery and ego inflating weapons. Where is the glory in being a marine? Ask anyone that has been in actual combat. How is he going to benefit having an officer shouting obscenities at him during training going to make him at peace with himself. Forced discipline works for nobody.

I would probe him for his source of anger/rebellion and help him channel it in another direction. Bodybuilding did it for me. I doubt I would be alive today if it wasn't for BB and good medication. I was a kid born into the conflict of Apartheid in South Africa. I became angry and violent and let me tell you that violence solves NOTHING! Help him to see the best side of himself and he will choose.....

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

Boot camp sounds right. There is also a great documentary on HBO this month about Alcohol and Teens. It nearly put me in tears and i wished i'd seen the movie when i was younger. Also, let him spend an hour or two in a real prison and get a taste of the life he's headed towards. Try San Quentin for a day that will have him mowing your neighbors yard for free and taking choir lessons at your local church. Believe me!

dont watch something like that on clomid.