damn my step-son is in trouble

[Papa Lion]

though I've grown up quite a bit since my younger wilder days granted I'll be 29 here pretty soon... that all seems like alifetime ago.... my personal opinion having had more run ins with the law than I care to count in public... and having a an older brother who has has done more years in prison than my heart wants to count and more to go (thank god my little brother good... for my mothers sake!!)... I say the worst thing you can do for him is get him a good lawyer... right now he's not lookin at anything too big and if his PO is pulling for him that holds ALOT of weight witha judge.... 6 weeks will come and go quicker than a cunt hair on a stripper... they'll have him on a workout program and maybe give him a little discipline... they will also give him a little taste of what it's like when someone else is running your life (which is really the best thing he will experience outta that program)... which is exactly what he'll get if he's keeps on going on the road he's on... not to mention the quality people you will be immersing yourself in!! all it takes is for one bad night when your a little drunk and things begin turning towards a direction that will lead you to the big house.... and drugs and alcohol usually tend to dull your gut reactions and liquid courage wears away shortly after it's all too late.... that's to say if he doesn't just end up in an accident.... you can do hard time for something as little (in most people's books) as a dui.... had a family friend that went to prison for 3 years having fallen asleep at the wheel after drinking he was below the legal limit at the time but it had been a long day of driving.... hit a car and the other driver broke their ankle in the crash... he ended up with a list of charges... one being dui... another a felony assault... one thing most people don't realize is there is actually no such thing as a "legal limit" for intoxication.... if you are pulled over and blow below the "legal limit" but the officer still has reason that you are incapable of operating a motor vehicle.... he may still ake you to jail... and charge you with dui!!! also in dui cases it is rare that is your only charge... they tack on wreckless endangerment etc etc.... and that is if you didn't wreck your car.... then they plea you down to feeling good about only getting a dui!! and that is just dumb kid shit and many of us have had at least one dui if you drink long enough and get behind the wheel enough times eventually you pulll a case... it all fairly minor... maybe.... but things can go bad quickly... you kill somebody in a dui wreck... you're f'd bigtime and yeah you'll be going to the big house... and it is a fine line between stickin your car in a ditch, and hurting somebody in another car.... and keep in mind you don't actually have to "injure" them as some folks are waitin for a fender bender to get a little spending cash from whiplash etc!! anyways sorry to take up so much of your time.... best of luck with all of it!! I hope things work out for the best.... thta's not to say the easist or most painless... but for the overall best!!

-Papa Lion-

 

[Advisor_x]

Hope boot camp will help him........

 

[BigBlu]

+1

My father used to smack the shit out of me. Kept me on the straight and narrow.

No wonder we live in world where we think violence is the answer!

We can't live by the premise "my dad did it to me", so I might as well teach the next motherfucker that comes a lesson......blah, blah, blah. That is caveman thinking bro.

 

[D_Mac]

No wonder we live in world where we think violence is the answer!

We can't live by the premise "my dad did it to me", so I might as well teach the next motherfucker that comes a lesson......blah, blah, blah. That is caveman thinking bro.

Not violence, discipline bro...

When it comes to the law and a job when you fuck up there are consequences, if you bail your kid out of everything, then he doesn't learn. Even if he gets off there are lawyer fees, he should have to pay them, not Dad. Dad won't be around forever and he will have to get by on his own. Tough love is the answer here.

 

[perp69]

Sometimes it is best to let the cards fall where they must. Maybe a little jail time will wake him up. He is a juvie right so record will be wiped clean usually.

Perp

 

[BigBlu]

You have to have goverments tell you what to do if not then there would be chaos and anarchy. true I dont like a lot of laws they have. it made me a better person not compared to anyone other than myself. it showed me i could do something as difficult as bootcamp. Attitudes like yours is whats turning our kids into a bunch of pussies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let me apologize in advance to all the decent American bros on this board before I launch into this. It is aimed at all the armchair warriors in this thread.

Lets talk about pussies, my friend. Isn't ignorance bliss!? Take a look at your fine country right now at this time in human history. It has perpetrated and/or initiated more violence over the past two and a half centuries than any other country on this planet. You also have the highest incarceration rate, per capita, in the world. Land of the Free!? You teach your kids that if you don't like someone else's attitude then go over to THEIR country (or neighbourhood) and fuck them up, and then, when they slap you back in the face in self defence then just nuke them. Nothing like a good ass whipping! Join the marines and serve your country. "Hey Billy Bob have you seen what this rocket launcher can do.....it's just like a video game."

The biggest joke is not that the US government thinks that it's the world's foundation of morality and justice, it is actually that we allow you to get away with it, even when we see George W's nose growing longer by the day. Al Qaeda is just a figment of your politician's imagination to keep you folk 'grazing through the pastures in the Land of the Free' like sheep guided by their shepherd. The problem is that your 'shepherd' has his balls in a vice and the tension on his nuts is controlled by the banks, corporations and lobbies that fund the puppet show.

With regards looking to your government for guidance and law and order, take a look at it now. Is this not anarchy?

Your kids 'are only pussies' (according to you) because you send them off to institutions called school, college and the military for unilateral brainwashing in the name of becoming 'a better person' You forego your responsibilty as parents and feel that any 'abnormal' behavior needs medication or bootcamp. It's amazing that kids that have been put on your wonder medications seem to think that mowing down their classmates with an automatic weapon is a solution to their repressed anger....and maybe a part in Natural Born Killers 2.

Take responsibility for your youth and show them love, not Prozac, Ritalin or an Uzi. Progressive evolution (extropy) doesn't come in a capsule or a 9mm cartridge. It comes from the heart not our egos.

Peace. Now!

 

[digger]

"don't know where else to put it" --> the LAW board, bro.

And here's a bump to put it at the top. (You're welcome.)

 

[partagus]

Hey Bro, I have experience working in Juvenile Detention Centers. The judge usually follows what the JPO reccomends. If your step-sons JPO reccomends going to a detention center, that's where he will go. If your step-son is passing drug/alcohol tests, is completing school and has a job, your JPO will usually reccomend release (Sometimes they require a home monitoring unit to be placed on your childs ankle). If your son gets sent to a detention center, he will probably serve 20-30 days with the release stip being that he completes his GED. Most detention centers are over-crowded so he will probably get sent home or a possibley 10 days at a JDC. Contact his JPO and ask what his reccomendations are going to be.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

Let me apologize in advance to all the decent American bros on this board before I launch into this. It is aimed at all the armchair warriors in this thread.

Lets talk about pussies, my friend. Isn't ignorance bliss!? Take a look at your fine country right now at this time in human history. It has perpetrated and/or initiated more violence over the past two and a half centuries than any other country on this planet. You also have the highest incarceration rate, per capita, in the world. Land of the Free!? You teach your kids that if you don't like someone else's attitude then go over to THEIR country (or neighbourhood) and fuck them up, and then, when they slap you back in the face in self defence then just nuke them. Nothing like a good ass whipping! Join the marines and serve your country. "Hey Billy Bob have you seen what this rocket launcher can do.....it's just like a video game."

The biggest joke is not that the US government thinks that it's the world's foundation of morality and justice, it is actually that we allow you to get away with it, even when we see George W's nose growing longer by the day. Al Qaeda is just a figment of your politician's imagination to keep you folk 'grazing through the pastures in the Land of the Free' like sheep guided by their shepherd. The problem is that your 'shepherd' has his balls in a vice and the tension on his nuts is controlled by the banks, corporations and lobbies that fund the puppet show.

With regards looking to your government for guidance and law and order, take a look at it now. Is this not anarchy?

Your kids 'are only pussies' (according to you) because you send them off to institutions called school, college and the military for unilateral brainwashing in the name of becoming 'a better person' You forego your responsibilty as parents and feel that any 'abnormal' behavior needs medication or bootcamp. It's amazing that kids that have been put on your wonder medications seem to think that mowing down their classmates with an automatic weapon is a solution to their repressed anger....and maybe a part in Natural Born Killers 2.

Take responsibility for your youth and show them love, not Prozac, Ritalin or an Uzi. Progressive evolution (extropy) doesn't come in a capsule or a 9mm cartridge. It comes from the heart not our egos.

Peace. Now!

First of all this is coming from a guy from ireland who does not even live here. Our kids have been going to schools for years and joinging the military. they are pussies because of people like yourself who want to be nice to these kids and baby them and tell them to love themselves. For someone who does not even live here commenting on what america is and does is like me trying to tell some one from ireland how to drink beer. Who the fuck did we nuke that didnt deserve it? because of what our goverment has done we have to had a terroists attack on out US soil since 9/11. I agree on your comment about the prozac. That again is a result of parents not taking the time to discipline thier kids and making them pussies. you proved my point thanks. Kids dont need time out they need discipline. this si why our crime rate as you said is so high.

So we think we are the worlds morality and justice montior? So if you see another country opressing thier people beating thier women and just hurting those not able to defend themselves is ok? if you had the power to stop someone from getting hurt would you do it? as long or hard as it may be? If you answer no then your a pussy.

 

[Pat_McCrotch]

No wonder we live in world where we think violence is the answer!

We can't live by the premise "my dad did it to me", so I might as well teach the next motherfucker that comes a lesson......blah, blah, blah. That is caveman thinking bro.

Showing you give a fuck about your kid is disciplining your kid. You can love your kid and spank them as well. It is called tough love.