Coping With Death

[javaguru]

I'm sorry for your loss.

Death is a natural part of life and we all come to terms with it in different ways. None of us are getting out of life alive.

 

[samoth]

thanks!

it was a past x and they still kept in touch

Dude, you're taking this more personal than her, lol.

 

[Jon79]

Dude, you're taking this more personal than her, lol.

ok bro.....zm was asking so i told him

just keep giving me a hard time tonight bro i don't know what i did to you

 

[samoth]

ok bro.....zm was asking so i told him

just keep giving me a hard time tonight bro i don't know what i did to you

Wait, what? I think one of us is confused again...

 

[covergrl80]

I am so sorry to hear that.

When I was 17 I lost my step dad to a car accident and then my Mom 4 years later, so I know how you feel. Just remember those we love remain with us, for love itself lives on. Cherished memories never fade, because one loved is gone. Those we love can never be more then a thought apart. For as long as there is memory, they live on in our hearts.

Keep your head up sweets!

 

[Jon79]

Wait, what? I think one of us is confused again...

nevermind sorry .....thought you were giving me a hard time in another thread too.....just misread....sorry

i u.........like a brother not

 

[samoth]

nevermind sorry .....thought you were giving me a hard time in another thread too.....just misread....sorry

i u.........like a brother not

I want to have your children!!

(Sorry Woots, nothing personal.)

 

[caligirl]

i can see how that would happen

i was close to signing up as a volunteer at a local hospice because of that very same reason

i almost feel guilty saying it, but losing a loved one brings a sense of clarity...to those who are aware and open to it

3 times within 2 months i was at the same funeral home, and just watching the routine and normalness of the business made me realize it's not the death that is sad, because exposure to something so many times will make it mundane

but rather forgetting how and why the person lived

never before have i been more driven in every aspect of my life

I have been struggling over the last two weeks... actually tomorrow marks two weeks he died and monday will be two weeks for my grandpa.

I have been so sad at the loss of his life and how he lived. the world was truely a better place because of him, kind caring, giving. I saw him just about everday, and always looked forward to it.

He would have wanted everyone in his life to go on being happy and healthy... it's just a fucking shame, in a selfish way I'll say I feel fucking cheated and sometimes even pissed off at myself because there were things I wish I had shared with him before he died. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster, I hate it... I'll find what I need to get thru it, but now I'm still so sad... not a day goes by my heart doesnt ache and I don't cry. this sucks and NOTHING will take it away except time OR if he should knock on my door... lol... yeah, don't you wish you could turn back time. I can see his face so clearly, his warm smile. I talk to him everyday, I don't know what else to do.


I cant wait until I realize the "reason" for all this in my life... I want to so this pain will go away..... I have been at the intersection of 4 deaths in the past two months. I don't know the reason, I don't see it yet. Besides the obvious... my kids, my health... there IS something more, but for now and for awhile I think I will be in mourning.

 

[Jon79]

I have been struggling over the last two weeks... actually tomorrow marks two weeks he died and monday will be two weeks for my grandpa.

I have been so sad at the loss of his life and how he lived. the world was truely a better place because of him, kind caring, giving. I saw him just about everday, and always looked forward to it.

He would have wanted everyone in his life to go on being happy and healthy... it's just a fucking shame, in a selfish way I'll say I feel fucking cheated and sometimes even pissed off at myself because there were things I wish I had shared with him before he died. I'm on an emotional rollercoaster, I hate it... I'll find what I need to get thru it, but now I'm still so sad... not a day goes by my heart doesnt ache and I don't cry. this sucks and NOTHING will take it away except time OR if he should knock on my door... lol... yeah, don't you wish you could turn back time. I can see his face so clearly, his warm smile. I talk to him everyday, I don't know what else to do.


I cant wait until I realize the "reason" for all this in my life... I want to so this pain will go away..... I have been at the intersection of 4 deaths in the past two months. I don't know the reason, I don't see it yet. Besides the obvious... my kids, my health... there IS something more, but for now and for awhile I think I will be in mourning.

 

[caligirl]

Hi Jon