approaching women...

[Judo Tom]

you can still go out.. stay sober and just make cocky and funny jokes about staying sober.

talk to girls like you have known them forever dont be mr nice guy be cocky and funny that is what builds attraction in females. once a female knows she can manipulate you and play you she wont be attracted to you.

 

[A FREAK]

same here dude..i kinda have a hard time starting a conversation

 

[markshark]

you can still go out.. stay sober and just make cocky and funny jokes about staying sober.

talk to girls like you have known them forever dont be mr nice guy be cocky and funny that is what builds attraction in females. once a female knows she can manipulate you and play you she wont be attracted to you.

yeah true. i been tryin this lately and bein sober and tryin to talk to them really builds up confidence. then the next day i dont have to worry about all those shitty toxins in my body and feelin hungover or something. its like personal triumph. and just makin bullshit jokes with them like they were my friends or something and not tryin to hit on them all night and lookin desperate actually works better. that way ur makin them laugh and have a good time and not just hittin on them like a lot of other guys do.

 

[DZLS]

i usually just walk up with my cock hanging out...

a conversation usually commences...

 

[pendit]

i usually just walk up with my cock hanging out...

a conversation usually commences...

HAHAHA!!! I don't know if you're joking because I've seen dudes do that at bars and parties before. Unfortunately, didn't get them anywhere. (At least from what I observed)

 

[SlimJim52]

Confidence! Nothing more. Nothing less.

I found the guys with the gals have the confidence, in themselves and in their rap. You have to be a good talker and continue the conversation to hold their attention. Finding the right subjects doesn't hurt either. Can't be talking about yourself, Mom or sports she doesn't give a shit about. ASK QUESTIONS !

Of course, I have been a complete failure at this through most of my life, but have gotten by.

 

[carlsuen]

lol.. save all these talking and be a desciple of the great David DeAngelo.. and it's gonna be the BEST investment u've ever made besides getting StartingStrength..

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it's that easy.. now go get laid..

 

[latinsteel]

I wonder if markshark ever got laid??
Mark if you are out there. Let us know what happened to you !!

 

[Mickey36]

i currently attend college and wanted to know what some guy's do to start a convo with random girls....and also, ladies make any suggestions if you like. i don't have a hard time time with girls, but my weakest point is starting the conversation. sometimes they start it, which is great, but others don't.

Compliment her about something she is wearing or find something to talk about having to do with the school. Keep it light for the first conversation and see if there is a vibe.

 

[DJ_UFO]

Compliment her about something she is wearing or find something to talk about having to do with the school. Keep it light for the first conversation and see if there is a vibe.

Yeah that's it. However, is hard for a guy to break that barrier with unknown girls when your personality is just not like that. I was like that until a few years back. And you know what it helped me? Going to strip clubs. For some reason, since girls approach you first, you feel confident to compliment them for something. At least in my case, I'm very respectful with those girls because I love what they do. But after some time interacting with them and seeing them as normal girls, I tried the same type of compliments outside and really works; girls love to hear that from men. And if a lady looks beautiful why not! there is no crime in saying something beautiful and respectfully.