approaching women...

[bigman44]

u kno wat i say " if you hesitate u masterbate "

 

[jon1320]

An easy opener is to neg the target. negs are usually little statements that bring down a girls 'confidence' and put you on top. So if u wanna be on top of her, say something negative in a playful manner.
Be like... you: Hey, nice sunglasses, you're like the 30th girl iv'e seen today with em'
her: thanks.... (unsure) and insecure
then after u break the ice, show her u have value...
and then a penis, and a condom... and put 2 and 2 together and u'll have a nice lay
peace

 

[SpawnsWorld]

The thing upsets me is when i see a hott girl at a store renting movies, or a shopping mall. How does one break the ice and know what to talk about?

 

[layinback]

The thing upsets me is when i see a hott girl at a store renting movies, or a shopping mall. How does one break the ice and know what to talk about?

walk up to her and say, " i am a shy guy and this is very difficult for me- but if i go home without meeting you and introducing myself, i will be depressed. ( eye contact ,smile and give a nervous little laugh )

if you are not handsome you better have some charisma if you have both...... you will get laid a lot and wind up with an std if you aint careful.

if you have neither this will not work.

the beauty of this manner of approach is that it is true and that truth will be conveyed in your presentation.

 

[DJ_UFO]

It depends also on the circumstances and what part of the country.....Last time in Mardi Gras, I was wearing some big ass balls around my neck...I was drunk, saw a hot girl, she was drunk too, and told her "I'm shy...but I've got a big dick" and she told me "please what I have to do to get those balls".....I was going to continue with the game but first decided to look around and my wife was looking at me... well, it won't be the last time in Mardi Gras....lol

 

[figure9]

An easy opener is to neg the target. negs are usually little statements that bring down a girls 'confidence' and put you on top. So if u wanna be on top of her, say something negative in a playful manner.
Be like... you: Hey, nice sunglasses, you're like the 30th girl iv'e seen today with em'
her: thanks.... (unsure) and insecure
then after u break the ice, show her u have value...
and then a penis, and a condom... and put 2 and 2 together and u'll have a nice lay
peace

Eh, idk about that one. I mean, it COULD work, but that entirely depends on the girl and how you present yourself. Remember: most women are generally insecure as is, so knocking on 'em probably won't help your case.

A very good place to start is to just make friends with different types of girls. Granted you chances of screwing any of them will shrink to about zero, you'll gain something more valuable in that you'll learn how they think and operate. Pretty soon you'll be able to go to a bar, party, etc. and just talk to a girl for 30 secs. and be able to tell if she's worth your time or not.

I have to agree with a lot of the guys on here in that how you present yourself is key. First impressions are everything because you only get one. Phony pickup lines and scripts only make you out to be an asshole. It's best to appear calm and like you're there to have a good time, as if today were just a normal, happy day. When striking initial conversation, never talk about your personal problems because it makes you appear weak or like you have issues. Always try and make her the center of attention, but be subtle about it. If she asks a question about you, always answer, but be concise and polite. 90% of the girls I've talked to think manners are sexy and only 10% are lookin for a "bad boy." With some experience you'll be able to tell the difference. It gets easier with time, but it's that initial jump that's the toughest. It's like jumping into an ice cold pool...you're nervous and you probably couldn't fit a rasin between your ass cheeks, but it's kind of fun too.

You're going to make mistakes, but DO NOT let that discourage you!!!!!

Lastly, IMO it might be worth it to wait and get into a committed relationship before taking the plunge. Afterall, do you really want your first time to be with...uhh...what's-her-face?

 

[maxspeed96ct]

I just get drunk and talk to as many girls as i can, i get shut down often but theres alwasy some cools chicks that wont shut you down,

you also gotta have facebook or myspace (dont laught bro, if your in college like me u need these things, easiest way to pimp hoes since vodka and beer)

 

[Bikini Mod]

Find something unusual or interesting to comment on, it can be a general comment about the surroundings or preferably some witty observation about them. You can practice this in everyday life by striking up conversations with strangers. For example, I was at a bar once and two girls had come from a "hawaiian" themed party. I walked up one and said, "Wow, you got laid twice, I'm jealous!" They laughed hysterically and ended up talking with me all evening. Once the ice is broken you can just ask questions about them, women love to talk about themselves. Be empathetic, mimic her body language, and touch her when you can; It all helps create a "connection." I could go on but you get the idea.

^^ what he said.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

you all suck shit, thee of the 2 year old thread

 

[deathdroprob]

what if you are already 23 and still a virgin? that fucks with your mind real bad. thats my situation, and its not like im tryin to be one. ive wanted to fuck since i was in 5th grade and never got to. im in college now with pretty girls everywhere and i dont stand a chance. Honestly, ive been to parties, bars, everywhere and have never even gotten the chance to make out with a girl. what the fuck do i do now?! thanks to this ive been on antidepresseants and sleepingh pills for over a year because of depression from never doing anything with a female. it sounds stupid, but when youve gone 23 years wthout one single female ever being interested in you you start to believe there is seriously something really wrong with you.

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