Am i the only one??????

[cindylou]

I dont withold pussy from my man. I would never dream of doing that - the thought has never once crossed my mind. He respects me though. And I LOVE him.

lol @ free ride. You dont see that your wife is a better woman than I, and many women out there. I WOULD NEVER BE A STAY AT HOME MOM. I couldnt stand it. I would go crazy. I would take my job ANY DAY OF THE WEEK than deal with three kids at home. You dont even realize what you have! You dont respect her. Why should she respect you? I am so glad I didnt get messed up with a guy like you. You dont respect your kids enough to respect the job of raising them! Take a good look at your selfish self.

I dont blame her at all. I wouldnt fuck you either.

I'll tell you right now that a woman needs romance for sex and a man needs sex for romance. She needs to feel loved. You dont make her feel loved. You make her feel like a piece of shit who is getting a free ride off you. I say you let her go. the poor thing has bear your children and you treat her like dirt.

 

[cindylou]

If my man expects me to stay at home and raise his kids...and we divorce? You better believe that I take money and the retirement I never got to contribute to when i was out of the work force. I would never marry a man who demanded a prenup who expected me to raise his kids. That would be foolish. We have to protect ourselves too. You are also forgetting the fact that she has given you the most valueable thing she has...her youth. She has given you the prime time of her life when she has youth and beauty. She risked all that for you! You dont respect ANYTHING she does, and we are supposed to feel sympathy because you bought her a fucking car? No, Im sorry A TRUCK! YOU WANTED THE TRUCK. Give me a break! Take a look in the mirror. You cannot possibly be happy living your life so selfishly. Put others before youself. Put your wife and kids ahead of yourself. You will be happier. I promise if you give that to the relationship you WILL GET IT BACK at least twofold. Put her first and make her feel loved, and she will love you forever. love = sex. To a woman.

 

[musclemom]

And if you're talking the comment about a wife cutting a husband off from pussy, I've heard that story more than once. It wouldn't happen in a dating situation, there are no $$$ stakes then.

This quote is from muscle mom......

Tell me women why do you all bitch for equal rights, equal pay, equal status, equal voting. But when it comes to money and a man. Its only your way.

Why when a man and a women get married and the man brings up the word pre-nup the women gets mad. Let me answer that. Because they cant fuck you in the divorce. You want equal rights then leave with what you came with.

Honestly, do you fucking pussy witholding bicthes think you diserve alimony. What the fuck do you give to the marriage that you diserve this. You want equal rights..... Go get a fucking job.

Now im sure all you women are going to respond in anger..... Why not, I would too if i knew someone was questioning my free ride..........

Make up your mind, you either want someone staying home, being a full time mother and homemaker, or you want a person working full time and some stranger raising your kids, pick one?

Anyway, the two women I know personally who cut their husbands off did it for different reasons. One cut him off because she had sexual problems (stemming from childhood abuse) from the get go and they just got worse after the marriage. Eventually the guy cheated on her and got caught. She cut him off, but they still cared for each other and remained good friends for many years after the divorce. Incidentally, it took the relationship another 7 or so years to finally divorce.

The other woman was in a different situation. She wanted a divorce and when she said that the husband reacted violently and irrationally, threatening suicide, threatening to quit his job, threatening murder, threatening to vanish. He frightened her. The woman was working full time but not making enough to support herself and the child. She cut him off until she could find a job making enough money to support her child after the divorce in case the man did make good on any of his threats. Incidentally, he never did pay a dime of child support.

Incidentally, I actually have not known, personally, any relationship where the couple could afford for the woman to be a full time stay at home mom, not with new vehicles and a large house.

I have to say it seems I hit some sort of nerve somewhere with you, tell me, was it the comment that you have no respect for your wife or the comment about looking into therapy for yourself, or the comment about perhaps she may be skeeved by the very touch of you ... hmmm.

 

[nefertiti]

Go cindy!!!

 

[jackangel]

so many females in this thread, so little name-calling. could we at least toss around a 'whore' or 'cockdock' or something?

 

[EXTREMEBOWHNTR]

I hit a nerve with you women..... Cause you all know its a free ticket!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

[EXTREMEBOWHNTR]

I hit a nerve with you women..... Cause you all know its a free ticket!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and your getting called on it

LOL

 

[cindylou]

You must really hate your job to resent your wife so much for not working to raise your own damn kids. Seriously its pathetic. You are not much of a man. I mean, really. You are a whiner and complainer and you wont do anything to fix your situation. Not even clean a fucking dish if that might work.

You dont love her, she knows it, and is not going to have sex with you. Why do you expect her to have sex with a man who does not love her?

 

[musclemom]

I hit a nerve with you women..... Cause you all know its a free ticket!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and your getting called on it

LOL

Ummm, no, no it isn't, there's nothing "free" about being a stay at home wife and mother. There's just no tangible compensation. However, here's a little piece I found through Salary.com (a reliable and unbiased site) telling you what a full time mother/homemaker is worth, in today's (well, 2007s) dollars, here's the link if you doubt the veracity:

Mom Salary Wizard® 2007. Mother's Day Paycheck for Mom's Job

What is Your Mom Worth?
Families Can Customize Mom's Job Description and Create a "Mom Paycheck"

Are you wondering what mom should be paid for her work as mom? Salary.com has valuated the "mom job" of both the Working and Stay-at-Home Moms! Based on a survey of more than 18,000 mothers, Salary.com determined that the time mothers spend performing 10 typical job functions would equate to an annual salary of $116,805 for a stay-at-home mom. Working moms ‘at-home’ salary is $68,405 in 2008; this is in addition to the salary they earn in the workplace.

This is from another article http://www.salary.com/aboutus/layou...p?tab=abt&cat=cat012&ser=ser041&part=Par499):

Salary.com found the job titles that best matched a mom's definition of her work to be (in order of hours spent per week): housekeeper, day care center teacher, cook, computer operator, laundry machine operator, janitor, facilities manager, van driver, CEO and psychologist. New job titles that made the list in 2006 include psychologist, laundry machine operator, computer operator, and facilities manager. The job title of nurse fell out of the top 10 this year.

"People recognize that both Stay at Home Moms and Working Moms carry a heavy load of responsibility and work long hours," said Bill Coleman, senior vice president of compensation at Salary.com. "It is an eye-opener for many people when they see the real market value of the work moms perform. This year, by adding information about the compensation for Working Moms, we hope to expand the recognition of just how hard all moms are working and of the economic value they bring to society."

 

[EXTREMEBOWHNTR]

Ok maybe you women didnt understand......

I said how come when a man and a women get divorced the man has to pay alamony and child support.

When i said free ride... Its after the divorce not during when shes at home taking care of the kids(and i didnt say this wasnt a job i just said it was easy)

I didnt say I want my wife to go to work.... I didnt say I was going to get a divorce.

Just a simple question?????

I dont know about you Cindy but this isnt Muscle Moms first rodeo.

Muscle Mom when you got divorced the first time how much did your husband have to pay in child support and alamony????