Hey bro, just read some articles that are amazing and talk about his needs, her needs.
Guess what the number one need for a guy is? SEXUAL FULFILLMENT which means sex.
NUmber two need for a guy is a recreational playmate, which means to do stuff with his wife.
These are things that are supposed to help your marriage last forever, not fix a sex situation.
Her number one need is affection, and her second need is conversation. When she says she wants to talk, dont say "ok about what" she just wants to talk. Tell her that you guys need to understand your differences as a man and a woman, and that you need sex. For a man thats what he needs. It just is thats why there are dirty pigs everywhere that want sex. Go to her in a loving way and say she needs to understand that, and that you shouldnt have your wife not meet your fulfillment. Thats wrong, part of marriage includes sex with her for the rest of your life, so she needs to do that. Not every day, you cant force it on her, but she NEEDS to realize its her job as a wife.
Also she needs to chase you sometime,make you seem wanted. Not having sex with you only makes you more mad because you are a guy, not a bad husband. So MOM dont act like you know everything and that he is shallow. ALL guys are shallow for that matter. Going into marriage with one girl for the rest of your life is not shallow. He deserves sex!
Guess what the number one need for a guy is? SEXUAL FULFILLMENT which means sex.
NUmber two need for a guy is a recreational playmate, which means to do stuff with his wife.
These are things that are supposed to help your marriage last forever, not fix a sex situation.
Her number one need is affection, and her second need is conversation. When she says she wants to talk, dont say "ok about what" she just wants to talk. Tell her that you guys need to understand your differences as a man and a woman, and that you need sex. For a man thats what he needs. It just is thats why there are dirty pigs everywhere that want sex. Go to her in a loving way and say she needs to understand that, and that you shouldnt have your wife not meet your fulfillment. Thats wrong, part of marriage includes sex with her for the rest of your life, so she needs to do that. Not every day, you cant force it on her, but she NEEDS to realize its her job as a wife.
Also she needs to chase you sometime,make you seem wanted. Not having sex with you only makes you more mad because you are a guy, not a bad husband. So MOM dont act like you know everything and that he is shallow. ALL guys are shallow for that matter. Going into marriage with one girl for the rest of your life is not shallow. He deserves sex!