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bigmann245
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caligirl said:
believe me i completely understand your feelings towards dating. when i went back into the dating scene i hated it. in the past year i had 2 girlfriends and both ended shitty and the other woman i met that i didnt date were nuts or had SERIOUS problems. i gave up for a while. i fear it will be a LOOOOOONG while before i date again.
redsamurai
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caligirl said:
I'm guessing you're not finding alot upstanding guys in cali huh? That's at least what I saw.....I was definitely not liking alot of men that I ran into in my two years up there.....alot of ego's and alot of shallowness, not much substance.....and that's coming from another man's viewpoint.....so I'll bet from a woman's perspective it might be worse. I couldn't beleive how many single mothers I ran into out there.....and it wasn't their choice. One of the girls I worked with gave the most poignant viewpoint that I probably heard up there.......one night walking her to her car she told me that she felt cali became one giant rap video......she didn't really have time to elaborate, but it made sense with what I experienced myself. So good luck......those two boys behaving?.....actually I know the answer to that....
redsamurai said:I'm guessing you're not finding alot upstanding guys in cali huh? That's at least what I saw.....I was definitely not liking alot of men that I ran into in my two years up there.....alot of ego's and alot of shallowness, not much substance.....and that's coming from another man's viewpoint.....so I'll bet from a woman's perspective it might be worse. I couldn't beleive how many single mothers I ran into out there.....and it wasn't their choice. One of the girls I worked with gave the most poignant viewpoint that I probably heard up there.......one night walking her to her car she told me that she felt cali became one giant rap video......she didn't really have time to elaborate, but it made sense with what I experienced myself. So good luck......those two boys behaving?.....actually I know the answer to that....
behaving-yes because they are sleeping! I'm fortunate to have two little love muffins... very sweet boys.
I'm actually NOT in Cali.. I'm in Vegas. Like I said I have not put myself out there... I'm not easily accessible, if I don't meet someone at work or at the gym, I won't meet them. I don't go out... once in 5 years. I have friends but they are mostly women, but it used to be the other way around.
When men come around me or approach me I tend to shy away, I don't talk much unless I know them or if I am with another man (friend) or if it is work related.... then I'm fine... otherwise, it's almost as though I'm afraid of them.
bigmann245
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caligirl said:
wow. i dont mean that like just wow... i mean wow that sounds very much like i am with woman. but i wont get into that here. its time for bed anyway. ill see yall on the boards tomorrow. take care everyone
dsh89
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5 months. But I was married at the time.
I can understand not wanting to be with anyone, I am at that point right now. People try to make shit so complicated when it is really easy. You either like me or you don't. You either want this to go somewhere or you don't. I don't have time for drama. But I have to get laid on occasion, what can I say, I like women a lot. So right now going on 24 hours without lol.
I can understand not wanting to be with anyone, I am at that point right now. People try to make shit so complicated when it is really easy. You either like me or you don't. You either want this to go somewhere or you don't. I don't have time for drama. But I have to get laid on occasion, what can I say, I like women a lot. So right now going on 24 hours without lol.
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immortalis
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wulf... you just let me down on so many levels man. No anal barrage of some poor un-suspecting cum-guzzler as of late?! Im so dissappointed 
BNG
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I never went 8 without, not even while deployed overseas. I did get close on one deployment though 'cause we got extended and I was seriously involved and wouldn't fool around on her.
It's a wierd thing though. Sometimes a FB is all thats "needed" and friends to hang with. Relationships can be a PITA! My FB actually introduced me to other women, and after we'd go out she'd ask how things went. When one developed into a full-on relationship she'd basically back off the FB thing. Otherwise she'd call me up and basically make her "needs" known. We were always pretty open with those we were seeing, and it went smooth for the most part. Sometimes it went exceptionally well!
It's a wierd thing though. Sometimes a FB is all thats "needed" and friends to hang with. Relationships can be a PITA! My FB actually introduced me to other women, and after we'd go out she'd ask how things went. When one developed into a full-on relationship she'd basically back off the FB thing. Otherwise she'd call me up and basically make her "needs" known. We were always pretty open with those we were seeing, and it went smooth for the most part. Sometimes it went exceptionally well!
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