Why do some women get FAT after they been in a relationship for a while?

[Pat_McCrotch]

Tons of reasons people get fat in life.

Depression, Inactivity (lack of clubbing!), age, change in jobs (sedentary), stress, pregnancies (10x if you're mexican!) etc. etc.

Marriage may contribute to it, but not always.

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and reading lame posts from RG?

 

[heatherrae]

Yes, it makes sense, but I don't feel that I'm shallow for wanting a women to look her best or a certain way. Attraction is what gets the ball rolling, so why forget about one of the initial things that started it all. If I'm making sacrifices to look and feel my best I can't see why it would be such a bad idea for the girl I'm dating to jump on board.

Appearance is not by any means all I care about but I feel it is one of the main factors that keeps my sex drive so high.

thanks for your input though, much appreciated.

and a high libido is what really counts. <giggle>

Sorry, but you are coming off a bit superficial and silly. I bet you are in your 20's?

;-)

 

[conundrum]

and a high libido is what really counts. <giggle>

Sorry, but you are coming off a bit superficial and silly. I bet you are in your 20's?

;-)

No I'm not in my 20's hunny..sorry.

 

[*The_West*]

i am, its fucking great

 

[conundrum]

Because, generally speaking, women have a slightly different view of things. We tell you boys over and over again, if you love her and want to be with her, and want to father children with her, realize her body WILL change. If you spend more than 20 years with her even if you are childless, her body WILL change. Gravity catches us sooner and it's meaner to us.

So you're being critical of your girlfriend of 9 months for gaining 10 or so pounds tells us a few things:
1. You really aren't in love her.
2. You won't stay with her.
3. Your relationship with her is heavily focused on physicality/appearances.

You're asking us why women who get comfortable in relationships gain weight. I think she's, subconsciously, hoping you'll leave so she can hook up with a guy that really wants to build a future with her instead of hanging onto you when you're clearly not that guy.

You asked

I agree with you on 2 out of 3.

No, I'm not really in love with her
No, I won't stay with her forever
No, I don't want to have kids with her
No, the relationship is not heavily focused on physical apearances. I like the girl, she's fun and I enjoy her company.

Build a future with....WHAT!!! this girl is 21 and in the middle college...I know shes not looking to get married. and either am I.

Lets not get out of focus here...I understand that during child birth and further on in life they are going to put on weight ..shit so am I. But right now is not further in life for me or her.

Like I said before, It was just a general question. I was not trying to alienate all women.

 

[heatherrae]

I agree with you on 2 out of 3.

No, I'm not really in love with her
No, I won't stay with her forever
No, I don't want to have kids with her
No, the relationship is not heavily focused on physical apearances. I like the girl, she's fun and I enjoy her company.

Build a future with....WHAT!!! this girl is 21 and in the middle college...I know shes not looking to get married. and either am I.

Lets not get out of focus here...I understand that during child birth and further on in life they are going to put on weight ..shit so am I. But right now is not further in life for me or her.

Like I said before, It was just a general question. I was not trying to alienate all women.

ah just break up with her already, then? What difference does it make?

 

[EnderJE]

I agree with you on 2 out of 3.

No, I'm not really in love with her
No, I won't stay with her forever
No, I don't want to have kids with her
No, the relationship is not heavily focused on physical apearances. I like the girl, she's fun and I enjoy her company.

Build a future with....WHAT!!! this girl is 21 and in the middle college...I know shes not looking to get married. and either am I.

Lets not get out of focus here...I understand that during child birth and further on in life they are going to put on weight ..shit so am I. But right now is not further in life for me or her.

Like I said before, It was just a general question. I was not trying to alienate all women.

Based on the first bolded section, it's over. Just call it quits.

Based on the second bolded section, you did.

 

[velvett]

I agree with you on 2 out of 3.

No, I'm not really in love with her
No, I won't stay with her forever
No, I don't want to have kids with her
No, the relationship is not heavily focused on physical apearances. I like the girl, she's fun and I enjoy her company.

Build a future with....WHAT!!! this girl is 21 and in the middle college...I know shes not looking to get married. and either am I.

Lets not get out of focus here...I understand that during child birth and further on in life they are going to put on weight ..shit so am I. But right now is not further in life for me or her.

Like I said before, It was just a general question. I was not trying to alienate all women.

I'm going to just give you the benefit of the doubt and not even touch this. ^

Good Luck with whatever you choose to do.

 

[musclemom]

I agree with you on 2 out of 3.

No, I'm not really in love with her
No, I won't stay with her forever
No, I don't want to have kids with her
No, the relationship is not heavily focused on physical apearances. I like the girl, she's fun and I enjoy her company.

Build a future with....WHAT!!! this girl is 21 and in the middle college...I know shes not looking to get married. and either am I.

Lets not get out of focus here...I understand that during child birth and further on in life they are going to put on weight ..shit so am I. But right now is not further in life for me or her.

Like I said before, It was just a general question. I was not trying to alienate all women.

Just hold your water there, son. According to your profile you're 32, so talking about building a future with a woman that you've been with for nine months is far from an unreasonable comment.

If you're not in love with her then what do you give a shit for? Either just have fun fucking her and only take her to dark restaurants where your friends don't go or just dump her chubby butt and find a skinny replacement.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

all the fatties come out in full force to defend themselves in this thread