why are women so sneaky

[GoldenDelicious]

"But if he wants me, he'll have to learn to understand me and know me"...this is where you threaten to close the wallet if they dont start sayin it like it is.

even better, keep your wallet from becoming a significant aspect of the relationship.

going into a relationship with the idea that money is an integral aspect of one side of the partnership is foolhardy in the extreme. not only is it demeaning to your potential partner right off the bat, but opening your wallet attracts whores and golddiggers...but that is to be expected, because thats how you treat your women.

like divnugganaraalalalaranug has said a few times (and i agree with him), people treat you the way that you project that you should be treated.

anyway women arent any sneakier than men - its just that many women are increasingly trying to take on the role of a man (its just the way our society is going), yet are hamstrung by societal preconceptions about how they should behave, which would see them painted as golddiggers/whores/bitches/users were they to be more direct, because some segments of female society (and society in general) are either behind/ahead of the times, and so women have to put on several fronts so as to satisfy different people with different mindsets, which means that they are used to weighing what they say, and to whom, from an early age...as opposed to most men, who blurt out all sorts of stupid crap because there are few repercussions for them.

oh, and...most men these days are just deaf blind and dumb to anything but sex, and their transparency lets them be played like guitars by the women around the place. if all the men in the world stopped acting like sex crazed idiots willing to do anything, half of female society would collectively shit its pants because they just lost their greatest edge

 

[n0th1ng]

It's blah blah our fault blah blah blah blah blah don't pay attention.

If blah blah blah listen to every blah blah blah and blah blah fourth blah blah blah blah blah loud and clear

What the hell did she just say?

 

[DIVISION]

women arent any sneakier than men - its just that many women are increasingly trying to take on the role of a man

I don't see it. I don't care what a woman does, she'll never be able to take the role of a man, just doesn't work within the structure of the relationship dynamic. I would personally like for a woman to take control of some of the important aspects of a relationship, but in my experience they're not equipped to do it. When all is said and done a woman trying to be a man is pointless, self defeating and without merit. Men determine all aspects of a relationship, from the women they pursue to the way the relationship ebbs and flows and how the important decisions are made. All this femmenist careerwoman bullshit really fucked up women's heads, had them thinking they could be men, only later do they realize that it's all a facade when they are in their mid-thirties and alone because they bought in to an impossible dream. Regardless of what our modern culture tries to push on people, one thing will never change: Men are Men and Women are Women and the roles they play in a relationship don't change, and haven't changed through time.

if all the men in the world stopped acting like sex crazed idiots willing to do anything, half of female society would collectively shit its pants because they just lost their greatest edge

True.

Men are their own worst enemies. I am in the minority, I'm not ruled by sex......I make decisions based on logic and I can see through a woman's bullshit off the jump. Once I've called a woman on her bullshit, I give her two chances to come clean, and if she tries to play games I cut her off the chain. Why waste your time on a woman who can't keep it real when there are so many more out there who will?





DIV

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

All this femmenist careerwoman bullshit really fucked up women's heads, had them thinking they could be men, only later do they realize that it's all a facade when they are in their mid-thirties and alone because they bought in to an impossible dream.

Nah, if the women in her mid thirty's is hot, men will still jump through hoops and put up with the bullshit to tag the pussy. Maybe not you, but the next say.....16,000. You know this. Supply and demand. Number game, they have the advantage....till the beauty fades.

 

[HS Lifter]

Men are their own worst enemies. I am in the minority, I'm not ruled by sex......I make decisions based on logic and I can see through a woman's bullshit off the jump. Once I've called a woman on her bullshit, I give her two chances to come clean, and if she tries to play games I cut her off the chain. Why waste your time on a woman who can't keep it real when there are so many more out there who will?





DIV

Damn, I couldnt agree more and I am exactly the same way. I dont put up with bullshit well....

 

[n0th1ng]

i mean, look around. have you ever heard of women going out and trying like mofos to get laid? no. but you hear of men going out, dressing up, buying women lots of stuff, spitting lots of "game" so that they can finally "score" the girl. NEWSFLASH: she just scored too...except that she didnt pay for anything, or try terribly hard.

I disagree. Women work their asses off to look good for men. How many hours a week do you spend bodyshaving, moisturizing, treating your hair, and doing cardio so your ass can fit in some tight jeans?

 

[DIVISION]

Nah, if the women in her mid thirty's is hot, men will still jump through hoops and put up with the bullshit to tag the pussy. Maybe not you, but the next say.....16,000. You know this. Supply and demand. Number game, they have the advantage....till the beauty fades.

In terms of mass numbers.......YOU ARE WRONG. There are more single women than single men, and it's always been this way.

As far as supply and demand, you've got a point, but you also have to realize that males and females have preconceptions of an ideal mate. I don't look at advantages or disadvantages between the sexes......I just know what I want and what I expect in a woman and go for that. I could give a fuck about the other 15,999 guys out there searching for whatever it is that they want. How do I know that my approach works? Because I get what I want and I don't compromise on looks or attitude. If you have the presence and confidence you will get any woman you want.





DIV

 

[GoldenDelicious]

I don't see it. I don't care what a woman does, she'll never be able to take the role of a man, just doesn't work within the structure of the relationship dynamic. I would personally like for a woman to take control of some of the important aspects of a relationship, but in my experience they're not equipped to do it. When all is said and done a woman trying to be a man is pointless, self defeating and without merit. Men determine all aspects of a relationship, from the women they pursue to the way the relationship ebbs and flows and how the important decisions are made. All this femmenist careerwoman bullshit really fucked up women's heads, had them thinking they could be men, only later do they realize that it's all a facade when they are in their mid-thirties and alone because they bought in to an impossible dream. Regardless of what our modern culture tries to push on people, one thing will never change: Men are Men and Women are Women and the roles they play in a relationship don't change, and haven't changed through time.

i dont agree. i agree that women taking on a traditional masculine role wouldnt work in a traditional relationship dynamic, but relationships between men and women evolve right alongside the society that circumscribes them.

traditional roles are well defined and understood; women stay home, cook, clean, and bear/raise children. men, being the more capable organism outside the home (stronger, faster, less prone to be targetted by other organisms/people) are the breadwinners that sustain the family unit. these days, though, women are less dependent on men for protection, since they can rely (more or less) on legislation and civilised behaviour to protect them. furthermore, women can quite easily train in martial arts or weapon use and therefore protect themselves. furthermore, women are increasingly earning as much as men, erodin the idea that men are to be breadwinners in a relationship, and also, women are bearing far less children, making it logistically possible for them to be more independent. overshadowing all of this, too, is the state, helping disadvantaged women (amongst other people) to function individually.

so really, apart from women bearing children, and usually having the responsibility of raising the child fall to them, the differences between men and women are becoming far less significant.

women find their own partners, the way men used to. they have casual sex, the way only men once could.

why then is it so difficult to believe that women are taking on male roles? hell, apart from wearing a bra, stupid uncomfortable (but sexy ) shoes, going to different stores, using different toiletries, and winning the Nag Olympics by default, i dont see terribly much difference between men and women these days.

there are some women who are manlier men than some of the guys around here...not naming names, of course ...id hate to get my arse beat by a chick...thats just embarrassing....especially frisky, she would probably demand sex afterwards too ..."me frisky. you jane. me want to oomph oomph!"...omg! omg!

 

[GoldenDelicious]

I disagree. Women work their asses off to look good for men. How many hours a week do you spend bodyshaving, moisturizing, treating your hair, and doing cardio so your ass can fit in some tight jeans?

lol ok haircut every week, hair removal usually weekly on the same day as the haircut, i dont moisturise because my skin is like a kuwaiti oilfield, it moisturises itself , and i train between 4 and 6 days a week, dieting 6 out of 7 days so that i can stay lean as well as fairly muscular, and i dont wear tight jeans because it makes my bum look big

so there

 

[DIVISION]

i dont agree. i agree that women taking on a traditional masculine role wouldnt work in a traditional relationship dynamic, but relationships between men and women evolve right alongside the society that circumscribes them.

why then is it so difficult to believe that women are taking on male roles? hell, apart from wearing a bra, stupid uncomfortable (but sexy ) shoes, going to different stores, using different toiletries, and winning the Nag Olympics by default, i dont see terribly much difference between men and women these days.

You misunderstood what I said and you still haven't made your case for women becoming men. Being financially independent does not equate a woman becoming a man. I don't define a man's role as being breadwinner only. The role a man plays in the relationship dynamic goes beyond the variables of economic viability, who earns the money and to what degree? That's merely one aspect, not the all encompassing focus.

So women can have casual sex without repercussions? That means they have taken on a "man's role"? Nugga, pleaseeeeeeeeeee....

I would agree with you that women don't "need" men like they have in the past, but to say that they have taken on men's roles in society.......that's a reach.

If that were the case, women would stay single and rely on their dildos.......but save the minority, most careerminded women still date men and still engage in relationships. So really, your case for women becoming men has no merit.

You're reaching.......




DIV