What is your view on people who have sex on the first date AND people who expect sex on the first date?

[AAP]

If you have sex on the first date with someone, does that change your perception of them?

If they want to have sex on the first date, but you don't, doest that change your perception?

If you want to have sex, but they don't.. it change anything?


Personally I have to have sex within 2 dates before wasting any more time. And only a second date is required if they are really really hot. Else they don't put out, they don't get asked out. (again)

Why? Well because. First of all I am horny or else I wouldn't be wasting time sitting around letting them buy me a meal or drinks. I would be doing better stuff. (Like having sex with someone else)

Also, because suppose you wait a few dates before you have sex and by then you get to really like them. Then you have sex and it sucks. (the sex, not them although that would mean they would suck too.) So now you have to ease yourself out of the situation without hurting their feelings. It's easier to do this if you find out on the first date that sex sucks.

Then again... on the other hand... if you have sex on the first date and it ROCKS but you really don't like them... at least you can casually keep having great sex with them until you find someone you do like. (and who sex with doesn't suck)

 

[jnevin]

If you have sex on the first date with someone, does that change your perception of them?

If they want to have sex on the first date, but you don't, doest that change your perception?

If you want to have sex, but they don't.. it change anything?


Personally I have to have sex within 2 dates before wasting any more time. And only a second date is required if they are really really hot. Else they don't put out, they don't get asked out. (again)

Why? Well because. First of all I am horny or else I wouldn't be wasting time sitting around letting them buy me a meal or drinks. I would be doing better stuff. (Like having sex with someone else)

Also, because suppose you wait a few dates before you have sex and by then you get to really like them. Then you have sex and it sucks. (the sex, not them although that would mean they would suck too.) So now you have to ease yourself out of the situation without hurting their feelings. It's easier to do this if you find out on the first date that sex sucks.

Then again... on the other hand... if you have sex on the first date and it ROCKS but you really don't like them... at least you can casually keep having great sex with them until you find someone you do like. (and who sex with doesn't suck)

I used to resemble this mindset.

 

[heavy_duty]

If you really get to like somebody then even love them it is easy to have great sex with them.

 

[ceo]

When I met you last night baby
Before you opened up your gap
I had respect for ya lady
But now I take it all back
Cause you gave me all your pussy
And ya even licked my balls
Leave your number on the cabinet
And I promise baby, I'll give ya a call
Next time I'm feelin kinda horny
You can come on over, and I'll break you off
And if you can't fuck, that day, baby
Just lay back, and open your mouth...

 

[manny78]

Why not ? When you're hungry, you eat ? Same thing with sex.

 

[cindylou]

For women there could be any number of reasons why a girl does not want to fuck right off the bat. She could be feeling fat, retaining water, just ate some garlic....you know on her period...blah blah Maybe couldnt get in to get the waxing done.....lmao

should people cancel or postpone the date if they are "unfuckable"?

 

[all the whey]

For women there could be any number of reasons why a girl does not want to fuck right off the bat. She could be feeling fat, retaining water, just ate some garlic....you know on her period...blah blah Maybe couldnt get in to get the waxing done.....lmao

should people cancel or postpone the date if they are "unfuckable"?

Agreed.

That is why I ask if she is feeling fat, retaining water, just ate some garlic....you know on her period...blah blah Before I agree to meet her!!!!$E

 

[AAP]

For women there could be any number of reasons why a girl does not want to fuck right off the bat. She could be feeling fat, retaining water, just ate some garlic....you know on her period...blah blah Maybe couldnt get in to get the waxing done.....lmao

should people cancel or postpone the date if they are "unfuckable"?

If they suffer from any of these ailments their dumb ass doesn't need to be out on a date of any kind. Especially not a first date where they are expected to be DTF. They could have had the decency to make up an excuse and postponed the date for another time. You know, a time when they could fuck.

 

[ponyfitness]

Re: What is your view on people who have sex on the first date AND people who expect

I think it's different depending on how long you worked up to the date. A person you have known for a little while, already get along with and you are already flirting I would expect sex on the first date and if not, some oral at least.

Someone you just met or got set up with and haven't really talked to, probably not unless you have a pretty good physical connection right away - meaning as soon as you see the person you think "wow, I would like to fuck you" and they think the same thing.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Re: What is your view on people who have sex on the first date AND people who expect

I think a big part of the reason so many relationships fail these days is because sex is taken so lightly, when in fact it's the heaviest part of the equation. Chics put out right away and then wonder why everything falls apart soon after, if they were even expecting any kind of relationship. That's their biggest source of power. You can't put the biggest logs on first and expect the fire to stay lit. Sex always complicates things. If it didn't practically no one would be breaking up, obviously.