I think maybe you should lay off the women and stop trying to figure out what they are looking for because the reality is that many that you may be running into really don't know what they want. Then take the time to deal with these two sides you seem to see yourself as - we all are a combination of good and evil but to focus so highly on the separation of the two within yourself is troubling to me.
I guess what I'm saying is figure out you before contemplating them.
~I dont want to make this an ANTI wmen thred cus its NOT
~ I just realized that in the USA at least BOTH men and WOMEN are trapped in this Game of Power and Deceit and usury. And that 95% plus are so tied to it, that they will HURT and burn MANY people before they ever get out, IF they get out..........
~Good for me is Universal ( think Kants Imperatives)
The bad of me is Rare and it there but not over powering
~ There is no addressing the issue, its simply there and part of the "geist" of our age......
~I dont want to make this an ANTI wmen thred cus its NOT
~ I just realized that in the USA at least BOTH men and WOMEN are trapped in this Game of Power and Deceit and usury. And that 95% plus are so tied to it, that they will HURT and burn MANY people before they ever get out, IF they get out..........
~Good for me is Universal ( think Kants Imperatives)
The bad of me is Rare and it there but not over powering
~ There is no addressing the issue, its simply there and part of the "geist" of our age......
playful/ball busting is not mean, but it turns alot of women on because you challenge them
i just dont think you found an effective method that is congruent with your personality and ethics
what works for me best? genuine but playful, laid back but far from a doormat