spatts said:
I'm most surprised by the idea that training together is unusual. We train with people from Elite all the time. Weekends, sometimes weeknights, on a regular basis...even if it means driving 8 hours round trip on a Saturday for a speed squat session. 2shy is the 30th person from Elite I've met. There are at least 10 that I train with on a regular basis, including Hannibal and Project, of course.
Spatts...I am sorry if my words offered an element of disbelief -- that is so not my intention. I love the idea of what is happening for 2shy and perhaps since I am not around here for all that long, I did not know you trained with others (other than of those you often speak -- Hannibal and the Project). I had lurked here before posting..but only in the women's area.
And I would like to add that is just surprising but unusual would not be the world I would use. And I would say a pleasant surprise. I am glad you find yourself close enough in locale to be able to offer such training dates but moreover that you can trust others into your life.
I have had the misfortune of coming out from behind the screen name only to find people have either misrepresented themselves or have been less than noble and forthright in the reasoning to meet or chat or what have you. I also am in an environment where a woman is the odd-man out so to speak if they chose to workout more than the "cardio class queen" type of person, much less someone who does this as their sport but not on a competitive level.
To be honest, my character as a mother (I am divorced but since remarried) has been questioned because I do take care of myself and insist that fitness is like brushing one's teeth == a necessity.
Also in my quest for knowledge on aas, I am sure that would unfortunately throw another cog in the wheel had I been able to be so generous as you and as brave as you are, if I did meet those I chat with.
Once you have gotten burned it is very hard to be other than protective of oneself and of one's family.
I in no way shape or form was surprised that YOU, Spatts, offered to meet and train someone -- I am surprised with pleasure and a warm glow, that indeed there are honest and good willed people out there -- even if there are none in my world.
I am sorry if I offended you in some way with my post. I had felt so good about what was happening for 2Shy and never was it my intention to mean otherwise.
No matter what, I still think it was a great thing...and I for one am touched by it. Those of us who live in the big city or near it, do not have such nice things take place very often.