vinylgroover said:
I don't see how 'most' 35 year old guys can have anything in common with a 23 year old girl. Despite the age gap, both are at totally different stages of their lives. I would think that most 35 year old guys are looking to settle down, have kids etc.
I haven't met too many 23 year old girls (or guys for that matter if the situation were reversed) ready to do the same......they're just starting life.......finishing school, about to start a career etc.
If you do find a much younger girl and it works great.......but i haven't met a 23 girl who acts and thinks like a 27 year old yet, which is why i made my comment.
I think sometimes for a 35 year old guy, the excitement of being able to hook up a 23 year old is more of an ego thing which drives the relationship than any 'real' connection.
A lot of times what you just said is true but for me I have more in common with this girlfriend then I did with the last few who were my own age.
Age don't matter it just depends where the head is at. You are right though, most 23 year olds aren't at the same stage in life.
Will this work out for me, only time will tell.