Agathe said:
The only way that my gf achieves orgasms right now is through my private region rubbing agaisnt hers(clit), friction I guess. I tried reading up on g-spot and different techniques to make her cum but it doesnt happen. Maybe I havent found it yet. She says she barely every ograsms and to this day she doesnt even really know if she did or not. The way she put it is that at some point she really really enjoys it and thats what she thinks the g-spot orgasm is. No tingling feeling in her body, plus she says the way she orgasms now is better which I think means that she really hasnt orgasmed from a gspot. Am I right? I just want her to experience it cause the way they put it is that it's the greatest feeling in the world. Plus she has never really cummed or left wet spots in bed so that's another reason I think she has never reached g-spot orgasm.
She has only been with 3 guys and tells me that this is the best way she has reached an orgasm cause at least this way she knows it. When she masturbates this is the one that she gets apperently.
We are both 20 and rookies but whatever, I'm confused so if someone could enlighten me a little I'd appreciate it.
Yea and girls if you could describe the difference between the 3 that would be great.
*sigh* I'm such a funsucker.
ASSume she's on her back and you are not. Hold your hand palm up. Are you looking at your palm? Good.
Stick one (or two, whatever) fingers in her hole. Can you still see your palm? Good.
Now, use your finger to touch the top of her vagina... the fingers inside the hole. If you move your fingers from side to side, rubbing the wall of her vagina, you should feel an area that is 'rougher' textured than the rest. It might feel like you would imagine a wet sponge would feel if you rubbed your fingers gently across it. Feel the difference from the rest of the vagina? Yippee! You've found the g-spot!
The difference? Clit orgasms happen with external friction against the... clit. She would feel this with you playing with her, perhaps with your nutsack hitting her clit during doggie style, and in some man on top positions where the man in the boat gets rubbed.
Gspot orgasms happen in many positions where your penis rubs against the front (ie: belly side) of her vagina. Cowgirl/reverse cowgirl is a good one.
Vaginal orgasms... I would think this is similar to a gspot orgasm. I've never really tried to dissect where my cum came from.
PS: you realize you could have googled all this information, right?