As much as I like some of the people on this site, I don't view it as some fraternity of blood brothers and sisters to whom I've pledged some ridiculous vow. Some people on here really need to step outside and get some other activities. this place is a bit addictive and consuming.
The shit said on some website and whether someone bans you from their little club is pretty damn insignificant in the scope of even a minute in any of our lives, or it should be. So, really, do whatever you like. I didn't cry last time, and i surely have bigger fish to fry than whether some mods on a site want me on their site. Or whether they post stalk me and make fun of me and my children. I think that is sad.