Should I dump her?

[jubei]

My gf went out to the club last night. She promised me she wouldn't drink much because we had alot planned today. I told her to do whatever she wanted but she promised she would only have 1 or 2 drinks. Turns out she got kicked out for being too wasted and she couldn't even stand because she drank way too much. I told her before hand that if she was sick the next day I was cancelling plans with her. Is Valentines day a good time to break up with her?

 

[SoKlueles]

Nooooo dont do it on valentines day. You know what its like to get carried away with something. Does she drink all the time? If she does, she has a problem. If she dont, let it slide but let her know ur pissed.

 

[Paulos]

If it's a repeated thing I'd dump her ass.

 

[jubei]

Hmm, I need to find out if she is sick today...I'm sure she will be. I made reservations at a hotel and for dinner, and I'll need to cancel them before 4 pm or I'm out the money.

I guess my problem with the whole thing is how she kept making a big deal about Valentines day so I went out and (potentially) spent alot of time and money planning it out then she goes and gets wasted. Also she decided to "promise" me something and went against it as well as the fact that its pretty trashy to get so hammered that you can't even stand. Also, it doesn't really fit into my plans to have a girl like that around.

 

[hub5326]

Dump her it will only get worse!

 

[Deterass]

Ditch the Bitch

 

[juve]

Dump - a measure too drastic I suppose. But it definately calls for a 'talk' - you need to put her in her place, and if she is not docile enough to your requests, then launch her
As long as she does not tarnish your public image/reputation with her lack of decorum the situation has a potential to be redeemed through simple civil discussion between the two of you; but if she's not mature enough for that - blast her

 

[Mandinka2]

Dumped my gf today cos of sumthin similar - if someone doesnt respect you lose 'em , they didn't care enough about u in the first place.

 

[jubei]

Good to see that there are people who feel the same way I do.

 

[jubei]

Looks like she is gonna get cut. Oh well, its too bad, I thought she had alot of potential.