Should a man have a say in whether his wife or girlfriend has an abortion?

[heatherrae]

I may have entertained the debate before, but I can definitively say no now that I am pregnant. I'm sure my ex would kill the baby if he could get away with it. That would be so wrong.

 

[heatherrae]

PS -- if men want to avoid having a baby, getting snipped is really easy, or *novel thought* they could keep their dicks in their pants.

Otherwise, quit whining and being deadbeat daddies and pay the child support so your baby doesn't have to live on scraps.

KUDOS to the real men who take care of babies that they father!

 

[Oceano]

I may have entertained the debate before, but I can definitively say no now that I am pregnant.

You don't think he should have a say at all?

 

[heatherrae]

You don't think he should have a say at all?

He had a say before he TRIED to get me pregnant. He could have just stuck to screwing the other woman he was sleeping with. He should have been snipped already anyway. He doesn't even like kids.

NO. He has NO SAY.

 

[Oceano]

He had a say before he TRIED to get me pregnant. He could have just stuck to screwing the other woman he was sleeping with. He should have been snipped already anyway. He doesn't even like kids.

NO. He has NO SAY.

What if he you got him pregnant? Would you want him to have your baby?

 

[heatherrae]

What if he you got him pregnant? Would you want him to have your baby?

I would not feel I had a right to tell someone to abort a baby. I would want to see it, love it, and help take care of it.

 

[Oceano]

I would not feel I had a right to tell someone to abort a baby. I would want to see it, love it, and help take care of it.

I'm just playin devil's advocate. I don't really have a solid opinion

I'd hate it if I got a girl prenant on a 1 night stand and I didn't want her to have the baby.

But your situation is different, you guys were married etc

 

[redguru]

I'm just playin devil's advocate. I don't really have a solid opinion

I'd hate it if I got a girl prenant on a 1 night stand and I didn't want her to have the baby.

But your situation is different, you guys were married etc

So you'd raw dog a one-night stand? gamble much?

 

[heatherrae]

I'm just playin devil's advocate. I don't really have a solid opinion

I'd hate it if I got a girl prenant on a 1 night stand and I didn't want her to have the baby.

But your situation is different, you guys were married etc

condoms. Men can wear condoms to prevent babies. Otherwise, they don't have much room to complain.

Devil's advocate is cool. I'm always game for debate.

 

[cindylou]

I'm just playin devil's advocate. I don't really have a solid opinion

I'd hate it if I got a girl prenant on a 1 night stand and I didn't want her to have the baby.

But your situation is different, you guys were married etc

WOW. Dont have one night stands if you cant handle what might happen! You cant control everything especially if she wants to keep her baby.

You are allright though.