Should a man have a say in whether his wife or girlfriend has an abortion?

[caligirl]

Sadly, that happens a lot. Sorry to hear the sperm donor is a deadbeat. I just don't get that.

One day he may "get it" hopefully.
I just wanted my son to have a good example and to be proud of his dad as most boys are.. his dad is actually a very dynamic and an interesting guy... professional athlete, commercial pilot and a very successful actor. He's just into himself too much to be a dad.
I will never tell him anything bad about his dad, even if to ME, and to my son, he has been less than responsible. No need for damage repair at age 10 if dad decides to become the parent my son needs. So when he comes around they have tons of fun "Disneyland Daddy" but reality, forget it.

 

[the_clockwork]

abortion

 

[Oceano]

Misplaced trust.

Hmm, I like to think I'm a better judge of character than that.

(that said, I guess you never know...)

 

[caligirl]

Hmm, I like to think I'm a better judge of character than that.

(that said, I guess you never know...)

yeah, and I was married to him, you woulda thought he'd be trustworthy.

I'll never marry again. ever.

 

[javaguru]

yeah, and I was married to him, you woulda thought he'd be trustworthy.

I'll never marry again. ever.

I said the same thing for years but I would seriously consider marriage again. I'm too much of an idealist for my own good.

 

[theoak01]

im just completely against it,except in a few circumstances so yes id like a say,and id like to say no fucking way is that happening.

thankfully I only date women who feel the same,being pro choice is a huge deal breaker for me

 

[caligirl]

I said the same thing for years but I would seriously consider marriage again. I'm too much of an idealist for my own good.

yeah, mine is still to fresh I guess, 4 years. I just don't buy into the marriage thing.. if I want to be with someone I will, a ceremony or piece of paper a contract will not keep me there..... love, companionship, caring, understanding.. all that shit will keep me around. I have two kids so there is much more to it, than if it was just me.

 

[Oceano]

yeah, and I was married to him, you woulda thought he'd be trustworthy.

I'll never marry again. ever.

hmm, i guess marrying someone doesn't change their personality.

So would advise others to get married?

I'm young, I don't ever plan on it, but I'd like to hear your views?

 

[Dial_tone]

I said the same thing for years but I would seriously consider marriage again. I'm too much of an idealist for my own good.

never been married but at 42 I'm still hoping.

 

[sardonicone]

One day he may "get it" hopefully.
I just wanted my son to have a good example and to be proud of his dad as most boys are.. his dad is actually a very dynamic and an interesting guy... professional athlete, commercial pilot and a very successful actor. He's just into himself too much to be a dad.
I will never tell him anything bad about his dad, even if to ME, and to my son, he has been less than responsible. No need for damage repair at age 10 if dad decides to become the parent my son needs. So when he comes around they have tons of fun "Disneyland Daddy" but reality, forget it.

Wait, not to pry, but if he's so successful, why AREN'T you persuing Child Support again?