You don't want to pull out all the stops. What does that leave you with? You have to add a little bit more each time. The worst thing in the world is to have sex become routine. Not cool!! If you pull out all the stops, what does she have to look forward to?
Very nicely put.....eventually u get to the point where your like fuck it and start using diff styles of play, maybe a swing like Puddles luvs , and what have you!!! I think its good to just be yourself in the bed "DONT THINK JUST FUCK" would be my slogan!!! Each time doing whatever it takes to make it enjoyable i would say....