Question for married people/divorsees

[SlimJim52]

OK, you are or have been married. Been with the same person for years. Now, it ends or has ended and you move on.

Would you re-marry?

I have my doubts about a 2nd time.

apparently can't create a pole, but curious on answers.

 

[Cutiebaby]

i think imo it would take some time before remarrying as i would want to make sure it would last and not that i was just making a rash decision on the rebound...but after a certain amount of time alone i probably would

 

[mrplunkey]

Never ever. That is all.

I'd consider a very tight relationship however, but the caveat would be that if they lost interest or intensity over physical intimiacy or sex, that I'd be 100% free to chase other sources. I'd even want an up-front agreement that it wouldn't be considered "cheating" -- I'd simply be shoring-up the deficit.

 

[Forge]

I certainly would. If I met a woman and felt for her the way I used to feel about my ex-wife then I would have no hesitation AT ALL about marrying again.

That being said, divorce showed me some realities that I am now aware of, and I would have to have a solid pre-nup to ever get married again. I got lucky the first time, but I would not count on that again. At this point in my life I own an awesome house, am well invested, have a great job and am making good money. No one gets married expecting to get divorced, but the truth is that people can change over time and relationships are not always able to be salvaged, even if 120% effort is applied to save it (I learned this the hard way).

So yes I would marry again, but I would protect myself as best as possible, just in case, because you just never can tell what tomorrow brings.

 

[phatrr]

I did, yeah. There's days when I wonder if she'll be my second ex-wife.

But when it works, it's the best thing in my life.