I like it mixed up and not so mundane -- kitchen, den, playroom, washing machine -- thats for the sex portion, hot & heavy, "quickies" -- then for the other, bedroom or outside with candles and music -- and that had better make it to at least 30 minutes! during spring & summer I love the rides on the motorcycles, finding isolated spots and having fun. Don't most of us like it more spontaneous? even if we don't like to admit it. Its fun to feel 'dirty' at times. I feel sorry for the ladies that can't become sluts with their man.