Paxil saved my life. Literally. Two other anti-d's I had tried, Prozac and Serzone, nearly drove me crazy. Paxil made me feel like a new person: the guy I had been before depression struck. It doesn't effect my libido in any way, and has the added benefit of delaying ejaculation for as long as I want. Friends of mine who have gone off did so over a four week period and not one of them experienced anything remotely resembling "brain shocks" or any other adverse effects.
MOD, sorry it didn't work for you, but threads like this have the potential of keeping serverely ill people from trying a medication that can save their lives. No flame, but how would you feel if one of those people you convinced to stay away from anti-d's went on to commit suicide? That's probably what would have happened to me if I hadn't discovered Paxil. Six years later, I'm a happy camper.