Past loves (serious thread)

[cindylou]

She prob does not realize she's doing it. When you're "in the right" or whatever it's easy to think your shit don't stink and you're so focused on the other person you dont see all your inner bullshit still causing problems. This girl is still stuck on this and stero gets to move on and grow as a person and she is stuck being angry and shitty for basically nothing. Holy shit this girl is gonna end up bitter and angry, people can't and won't always be 100% honest all the time. Life is gonna punch her in the face soon. LOL

I already got your k chris lolololo


gross

 

[EarthRider]

I guess I look at this different. He was in the wrong and broke trust. If a chick cheated on me, I'd kick her ass to the curb and wouldn't ever talk to her again. I figure once someone goes down that road, they will probably do it again. Only thing she did wrong was contact him again.

But, in your case is a lil different. You guys were so young I wouldn't even take the relationship seriously. Anything under 25 I consider fuck buddies with some feelings attached. I'm talking about when people get older.

 

[wootoom]

im so fucking mad right now

 

[EarthRider]

im so fucking mad right now

punch something

 

[zwhit]

I guess I look at this different. He was in the wrong and broke trust. If a chick cheated on me, I'd kick her ass to the curb and wouldn't ever talk to her again. I figure once someone goes down that road, they will probably do it again. Only thing she did wrong was contact him again.

But, in your case is a lil different. You guys were so young I wouldn't even take the relationship seriously. Anything under 25 I consider fuck buddies with some feelings attached. I'm talking about when people get older.

so my wife is my just my fuck buddy? thanks for clearing that up for me bro

 

[zwhit]

a lot of dr. phils up in here

 

[EarthRider]

so my wife is my just my fuck buddy? thanks for clearing that up for me bro

if you don't have kids than yes, lol

i meant it as a general statement, I am sure there are some that find love

 

[EarthRider]

the stats are against you at a young age. check this out bro

Divorce Rate : Divorce Rate In America

 

[sterolizer]

This girl is still stuck on this and stero gets to move on and grow as a person and she is stuck being angry and shitty for basically nothing. Holy shit this girl is gonna end up bitter and angry, people can't and won't always be 100% honest all the time. Life is gonna punch her in the face soon.

When I told her I couldn't talk to her anymore because it was too hard for me because she didn't want to be with me, she said "haven't you hurt me enough already" I felt outraged because I have done nothing since talking to her except apologize and ask her to give me a chance to prove myself. I felt like responding in anger because I don't deserve to be made to feel like shit, especially when she's not apart of my life anymore, so I calmed myself down and just responded with care and compassion.

 

[blueta2]

Not once a cheater always a cheater. There are always "reasons" for cheating. It's not right, but it happens. The key is, if the person who cheated redeems themselves and does everything in their power to regain trust, then it's worth the effort.
We are human, we are flawed, we fuck up and make mistakes. Everyone deserves a second chance if they actually prove they have worked on their character.
Regaining trust is really hard, but not impossible.
And ER, I was in a very serious relationship when I was 16 until I was 22, and we had a ton of respect for one another and neither cheated. He's still my best friend today.
My Mom was married to my Dad at 20 and 55 hrs later, they are still together, so age is not a factor at all.
Having said that, in this day and age, 21 is so young. Live a little, enjoy life and don't get caught up too early in the drama.