Past loves (serious thread)

[blueta2]

When I told her I couldn't talk to her anymore because it was too hard for me because she didn't want to be with me, she said "haven't you hurt me enough already" I felt outraged because I have done nothing since talking to her except apologize and ask her to give me a chance to prove myself. I felt like responding in anger because I don't deserve to be made to feel like shit, especially when she's not apart of my life anymore, so I calmed myself down and just responded with care and compassion.

People do forget what you've done, but they never forget how you made them feel

 

[EarthRider]

i never said it can't and wont work, i just said the stats are against you. I was married at 24 and I knew the stats. But I also felt the way I did for my wife, and couldn't imagine being with anybody else, so I went for it and I am happy I did. But, I still think when peeps are so young they should tread the water with caution

now onto the cheating part. eh, this hasn't happen to me so I really don't give a shit anyway

Not once a cheater always a cheater. There are always "reasons" for cheating. It's not right, but it happens. The key is, if the person who cheated redeems themselves and does everything in their power to regain trust, then it's worth the effort.
We are human, we are flawed, we fuck up and make mistakes. Everyone deserves a second chance if they actually prove they have worked on their character.
Regaining trust is really hard, but not impossible.
And ER, I was in a very serious relationship when I was 16 until I was 22, and we had a ton of respect for one another and neither cheated. He's still my best friend today.
My Mom was married to my Dad at 20 and 55 hrs later, they are still together, so age is not a factor at all.
Having said that, in this day and age, 21 is so young. Live a little, enjoy life and don't get caught up too early in the drama.

 

[ceo]

i think the people in the thread who said she should get over it are cheaters

the ones who said it hurts and sucks have been cheated on

just sayin

'cept he never cheated. The other chick was basically his therapist. He sat in front of her and cried about his gf while she listened...only he probably didn't pay her. Maybe she got a free meal or two out of it, I dunno.

 

[ceo]

so my wife is my just my fuck buddy? thanks for clearing that up for me bro

she's definitely MY fuck buddy!

GICH!

 

[-SD-]

No I would of changed anything that happened about us talking again, I tried to make things work out, I put myself out there for her, gave it a chance. Even though it ended the way it did, I wouldn't change it.

Im not talking about never have known her, im talking about this current back and forth stuff.

 

[zwhit]

if you don't have kids than yes, lol

i meant it as a general statement, I am sure there are some that find love

please stop posting

 

[zwhit]

she's definitely MY fuck buddy!

GICH!

well that just means I get one now. I've had my eye on this little asian from SD for a while now

 

[EarthRider]

please stop posting

u mad

 

[zwhit]

u mad

no, just trying to do my part for the board

 

[SpyWizard]

she's definitely MY fuck buddy!

GICH!

do you get to know your tunnel buddies??