numbers, double standard

[hoedawg]

i got slammed the other night from my girl because she found out some stuff.....alot of stuff that upset her and she really let me know. so, how do i handle her?


im 29 and ive been around a bit. ive slept with about 60-70women. i messed around with more women than that. messing around=more than kissing but not sex.

shes 21. shes been with 6 other guys. 5 guys within 2 years. no one nighters or anything like that. they were guys that she dated and one or two was probably a steady hookup. dont know what shes done for messing around. i know this because i tried to fire back and she shut me down real quick. i dont really even care what shes done, but im trying to defend myself and find a way out but shes fuckn heated

do i even have an arguement........im stuck on this one.....i really feel like i dont. i really have to watch what i say to her

have any of you been through this

is there a double standard.

is a guy the man if he slept with alot of girls....or has one night stands......is a girl a whore if she does the same

 

[SouthernLord]

It's your past bro. You can not change it. She can either accept it, or you can move on.

 

[nangiggles]

It's really none of her business, we crazy women ask this stupid question sometimes, BUT we have absolutely NO right to get mad at the answer, it's your past and you can't change it, you shouldn't have to either it's what made you into the person she liked....

 

[hoedawg]

i know what you mean....theres really alot to it. this was kinda something she focused on for some reason. i have yet to get that out of her.

i mean...if the roles were reversed, and she had done the shit that i did, i might have sex with her,but i woulndt make her my girl......i would think she was a total slut

 

[broonzy]

It's really none of her business, we crazy women ask this stupid question sometimes, BUT we have absolutely NO right to get mad at the answer, it's your past and you can't change it, you shouldn't have to either it's what made you into the person she liked....

^^^

What she said. Plus if she told you she slept with 6 guys then in reality it's probably more than that. Women tend to exclude the ones they think "don't count" for some reason.

 

[rnch]

It's your past bro. You can not change it. She can either accept it, or you can move on.

TITCR

 

[bblazer]

A little rule of thumb.

1) Divide in half the number of people guys say they have had sex with
2) Double the number of people girls say they have slept with.
3) Who the fuck cares what that number is anyway. There is no magical number that defines good or bad.

B-