NEED ADVICE.Hell is about to break loose HELP

[Phiba Optik]

Not all women are saints but not all are whores either, hang in there, dump her and take your time before you even seriously date another girl again

Hey giggles, thanks for your response!

I will play the waiting game, but I don't know when I will be willing to go exploring again. My trust issues will ruin me. This whore ruined me.

 

[Phiba Optik]

So have u heard from her or has she tried to email and ask what's going on?
Stay strong and just tell her its done because ur not interested anymore. Don't get into all this sneaking bullshit with her.


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She knocked on my door, I didn't respond. She called me and texted me and I haven't responded. I was going to save me the trouble and just forward her the pics. But I wanted to rub it in her face and she the look on her face when I bash her for this shit. It sounds mean, but its the least I can do. I could be a fucker and put up all of our videos of us fucking and her blowing me etc and all photos, but I don't want to be "that guy!"

 

[Phiba Optik]

ALL guys have been fucked over at one time or another..some more than once...this sounds like your first one..dont worry though, they get easier to deal with the more it happens.

Yup first time for everything right?! I don't know how to deal with it since I have no experience. I hope this was my first and last time I have to deal with such shit.

 

[Phiba Optik]

I've gotta disagree with my good brothers here suggesting you start messing around with her friends, or keep her around and start fucking her over they way she has done to you.
Be the better man, tell her its over (whether you tell her because you aren't interested or because you found out...doesn't make much difference imo), and move on.
It hurts, it really does. And it will be hard..very hard...you will likely second guess yourself, and think maybe you should try one more time...don't make that mistake.
Sometimes (very often) the hardest/most difficult things we do are also the best for us, and the most important in the long run.

Be strong, enjoy your life, and when the time is right, I'm sure you will find someone worthy of you.

Hey thanks for the response! I will not fuck her friends, but not because I am a better man..its just that I dont want to be even more complicated than they already are. I feel like "why should i keep being the better man?" That's what got me here In the first place. I kept forgiving her and trusting her again and again and was always the better man, and that ended up getting me fucked over. I want to be the better man again, but something tells me that for once I should do it differently, just to show that bitch that a nice guy can be a fucking dick too.

 

[Phiba Optik]

Just let her go and move on. It will hurt like hell for months so dont let anyone fool you.
You will feel like shit and lost and lonely. But you will come out stronger and wiser. You will find someone that is far better then you left.
It's not worth anything at this point to brood or get yourself in shit over her. No woman or man is worth it.

I just hope i can focus on important stuff like my education...My professor was lecturing and literally I did nothing but doodle garbage on my paper and think about how that bitch ruined my life.

 

[Phiba Optik]

she's cheating on you!

CAPTAIN OBVIOUS!

 

[nangiggles]

Hey giggles, thanks for your response!

I will play the waiting game, but I don't know when I will be willing to go exploring again. My trust issues will ruin me. This whore ruined me.

I've been married 2 years but we moved in for over 7 yrs now and I've never cheated, not even when shit has gone bad with no sex for months, sister's been with her guy almost 10 years, no cheating, cousin also 13 yers, no cheating, so we're still out there bro there are still committed and respectful women out there, gotta filter through some trash to find the treasure, dont let this woman set a precedent for future women

She knocked on my door, I didn't respond. She called me and texted me and I haven't responded. I was going to save me the trouble and just forward her the pics. But I wanted to rub it in her face and she the look on her face when I bash her for this shit. It sounds mean, but its the least I can do. I could be a fucker and put up all of our videos of us fucking and her blowing me etc and all photos, but I don't want to be "that guy!"

Be prepared for a TON of scenarios ranging from excuses, to fake tears/apologies, maybe a fuck it kinda attitude and she'll start pining her whorish behavior on you, etc, personally I couldnt walk out of the relationship with her thinking I dont know, I'd want her to know I know so she doesnt think she can get away with shit like this, I'd dump her in a way in which I dont even leave room for explanations, just tell her I know, ask her not to bother explaining and remind her why I'm so great and how they should now go fuck themselves, be the one who got away man, she doesnt deserve you.

 

[ceo]

I don't have the heart to do it. That's why this bitch used me. She knows I work out and am a hard ass douchebag on the outside, but for her, I was always the nice one. I always forgave her, mistake after mistake, lie after lie.

let me translate that...

she thinks you're a fucking pussy. She's cheating on you. She's always been cheating on you.

She's white, isn't she?

 

[ceo]

Hey thanks for the response! I will not fuck her friends, but not because I am a better man..its just that I dont want to be even more complicated than they already are. I feel like "why should i keep being the better man?" That's what got me here In the first place. I kept forgiving her and trusting her again and again and was always the better man, and that ended up getting me fucked over. I want to be the better man again, but something tells me that for once I should do it differently, just to show that bitch that a nice guy can be a fucking dick too.

If you "be the better man" she will say to herself, "this is why I cheated on that pussy!"

If you don't "be the better man" and you fuck all her friends or do whatever else required to be a fucking dick, then she will say, "he's a fucking dick, so I am justified in everything I've done." She will also want you more than ever.

Whichever way you choose to handle it, at some point she will realize, "he was a great guy and I should have treated him better." She may never verbalize that to anyone, ever. Or she may tell you. Either way, it won't matter anymore to you, at all.

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[Cutiebolic]

If you "be the better man" she will say to herself, "this is why I cheated on that pussy!"

If you don't "be the better man" and you fuck all her friends or do whatever else required to be a fucking dick, then she will say, "he's a fucking dick, so I am justified in everything I've done." She will also want you more than ever.

Whichever way you choose to handle it, at some point she will realize, "he was a great guy and I should have treated him better." She may never verbalize that to anyone, ever. Or she may tell you. Either way, it won't matter anymore to you, at all.

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I <3 CEO but strongly disagree

You caught a bad one here, bro, but don't let it turn you into a suspicious, jaded, a-hole...

Be more cautious in the future but don't become one of those dudes who keeps his woman on a short leash... You will both be miserable.

Let us know how it turns out.

If you really wanna get back at her, PM some pics to the boys. I am shocked I am the first one to bring up nudes!