That is not how I worded it.
Women have all the power in these situations and men have no say. I am not taking responsibility from my son. I did what I could on my end, but condoms break, slip off, whatever. I talk to him about not having sex, about the possible effects on her life not just his and if he cares about her he will wait, blah blah blah. But there needs to be back up birth control.
And it is my business. If she ends up pregnant, it affects me, BOTH my sons, their retarded father, not just her and her family. I would never allow my son to walk away and not take responsibility.