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My teenage son

That is not how I worded it.

Women have all the power in these situations and men have no say. I am not taking responsibility from my son. I did what I could on my end, but condoms break, slip off, whatever. I talk to him about not having sex, about the possible effects on her life not just his and if he cares about her he will wait, blah blah blah. But there needs to be back up birth control.

And it is my business. If she ends up pregnant, it affects me, BOTH my sons, their retarded father, not just her and her family. I would never allow my son to walk away and not take responsibility.

It doesn't matter how you worded it. She immediately pictured a 250lb dude that just escaped from prison coming after her Polly purebred virgin daughter.
 
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parenting advice on teen sex is something that probably shouldn't come from a Mormon virgin

:rolleyes:

Since her goal is to keep her son's pants on, and the principles I was raised with are what taught me to do the same, I think I'm probably the best person here to ask, especially since I was a role model to a cousin who did make the mistakes that V is trying to protect her son from and I know what should have been done to avoid it, which is exactly what V has just done.

You might think it's funny to poke fun, and I've got thick skin, but when it's somebody's child and they are looking for help on a very important issue, maybe you should just shut the fuck up.
 
Yea....about that....

So mom called me back, I just told her that he daughter seemed like a lovely girl, blah blah blah, she said my son was a very respectful young man and she was excited to finally meet her daughters boyfriend. Then I told her that I picked up my son's cell phone and discovered some disturbing texts and I'm concerned about sex. She told me that she will not be having my son over anymore, lol (fine by me) and she will discuss it with her husband. I told her that I felt that keeping them completely apart may not be possible. I felt they will try to get together, I very gently suggested birth control. She sucked her chair up her ass and kinda shut down on me. I decided that maybe now wasn't the time to go on suggesting the types I would put her on. We had a tense good bye.


oh yea.....

And my son won't really talk to me. And he wants to live with his dad.

Fun fuckin times :(

That was a stupid move . You need to stop being so involved in your sons life your only pushing him Away
 
I just told him before he got out of the care that I knew he was mad, but i really really love him.

He didn't say anything back.

It's fine. He loves you too. The silent treatment is "payback" because he knows it will make you feel bad, and somehow be justified in doing so because the way he feels is "your fault".

This is actually much better than an open yelling argument, because him being silent means he respects you too much to openly yell at you and tell you to "eff off".

If he does do that, DO NOT yell back at him.

If he shuts you out for more than another week, then you need to talk with him. Until then, let him have his space, but keep an eye on any atypical behavior you wouldn't expect from him even when he's bummed out.
 
That was a stupid move . You need to stop being so involved in your sons life your only pushing him Away

Disagree! She handled that perfectly.

Her son will get over being butt hurt and parents of daughter will realize she is no angel and start watching her more closely or get her on the pill.

Current feelings are temporary and collateral damage for doing the right thing.
 
That was a stupid move . You need to stop being so involved in your sons life your only pushing him Away

*you're

Also, you are wrong.

A parent should be very involved in their child's life. A teen does need their space and privacy, but if you come across something that gives you reasonable suspicion that they are doing something you know is wrong for them, their privacy takes a back seat to their well-being and safety.

A parent "not being so involved" is why so many teenagers do such stupid shit.
 
Since her goal is to keep her son's pants on, and the principles I was raised with are what taught me to do the same, I think I'm probably the best person here to ask, especially since I was a role model to a cousin who did make the mistakes that V is trying to protect her son from and I know what should have been done to avoid it, which is exactly what V has just done.

You might think it's funny to poke fun, and I've got thick skin, but when it's somebody's child and they are looking for help on a very important issue, maybe you should just shut the fuck up.

I wasn't poking fun. I was being dead serious. It looks stupid as hell to me, you giving out parenting advice when you have no kids of your own and your religious views and upbringing are much different than anyone else And then you "reprimand" someone else for messing around. If you're going to call someone else out for doing stupid shit, expect the same in return. I even agree with some of what you posted but your in here giving out advice like you've raised 12 kids to adulthood.
 
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